I voted "Ricky Gervais is hilarious" ... because he is and because he's also very much himself (or so it seems). Something I try to remember is that as relationships evolve, people aren't cutting ME off, sadly, they are cutting themselves off ... or ... we are mutually being separated because our season is over. Either way, I believe it's our privilege to continue to remember who we are and then to express that beauty naturally! Great question, @Joseph Groom