I learned to become an observer and to control my emotions and heard I should have compasion for evil. I'm battling the compassion part. This after I refused to see someone for who they really were and refused to go with my gut instinct. Found out God does not send us what we want but what we need. Found out that person mirrored me, he literally told me about it. I had never heard aboit it. But now I know. Total sociopath. He is in prison, he self destructed. I saw it coming, I didn't say anything, but I saw it. I battle having compassion. Guess the good part is I learned to never judge a book by its cover and to not feed it my energy and to always go with my gut instinct, my easly warning system. He showed me, what I felt the moment he contacted me. Curiousity killed the cat. They say we will continue getting them till we learn. Energy vampires. Some might learn that they might not like the lesson they will learn in turn.