The kind of love I speak about isn’t loud, rushed, or desperate. It’s the kind that feels safe, especially to a heart that has been hurt before. If you’re healing, you don’t want butterflies that feel like anxiety. You don’t want chaos mistaken for passion. You don’t want to earn love by overgiving or shrinking yourself. You want something steady. You want someone who understands that healing comes with quiet days, guarded moments, and a need for reassurance, not because you’re broken, but because you’re rebuilding. The most beautiful thing about healing is this: You begin to recognize the difference between intensity and peace. And when you’ve done the work within yourself, you don’t look for someone to save you. You look for someone who can sit beside you while you continue becoming whole. If you’re in a season of healing, don’t rush love. Let your standards rise with your self-worth. The right love will not feel like a test. It will feel like alignment. And when it comes, it won’t try to undo your healing, it will honor it.

hey everyone, the replay is UP now! you can access it here: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/038b3825?md=242fdf9c111a40e0a36563873ce981fb I want to say thank you AND congratulations for completing the 10 Day Magnetic Love Reset! the breakthroughs and progress you’ve made are awesome! today, was about integration and activation to install The Secure Love Identity It’s about taking everything you’ve learned from this experience and moving it out of the mind and into the body attracting love has never been about doing more, it’s about learning to accept yourself a huge part of this process is recognizing that you are not your thoughts, feelings, or patterns many of us learned in childhood to overgive, people-please, and self-abandon in order to feel safe or loved and over time, we confused the patterns for personality. when you start choosing authenticity over approval, it can feel “naughty” and uncomfortable but this is how the secure love identity is created through awareness, presence, and repetition you just notice the old pattern arise, you feel the energy underneath it without trying to fix it, and then you make a new choice…to express instead of abandoning yourself because love isn’t something you earn, it’s who you naturally are! AND if you are interested in continuing this journey with me to rewire your patterns and reset your nervous system, The Shift Academy is now open for enrollment! all the details are here: https://www.theshiftexperience.com HW for Day 10: ♥️what was your biggest insight from today? ♥️how are you going to EMBODY the shifts that you made over the past 10 days? ♥️how can you bring what you’ve learned into your life? share your answers in the comments below!

welcome back to Day 9 of the Magnetic Love Reset! Day 9 is about The Chooser Identity: Values → Standards In this video, I talk about shifting from “pick me” energy into what I call the chooser identity I discussed how dating from validation, approval seeking, or proving your worth keeps you stuck in unhealthy dynamics, and how embodying your values changes the way you show up in relationships you can access Day 9 here: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/038b3825?md=685ec88a2eda4044ac78ec87b33e648f HW for Day 9: 💜Complete the Values, Standards and Boundaries Worksheet and share your insights in the comments below! If you want to join before our last live call on Friday, Feb 20th, you still can: https://www.magneticlovechallenge.com/reset

hi everyone, the replay is available NOW! you can get it here: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/038b3825?md=c5b40bc221414d4f8d45ef8200cb3c73 it’s been awesome to see the inner work happening during this challenge! many of you are having real breakthroughs and shifts you can feel in your body today’s call was about the shields we’ve built to protect ourselves. they may have once kept us safe, but over time they can also block connection, intimacy and love the work is learning how to feel safe in your body again without needing to armor up based on the past instead of feeling the emotion that comes up, we move into protection…fixing, over-giving, over-analyzing, perfectionism, anxious attachment and these are all shields the moment we bring the energy back to ourselves, accept where others are without needing to change them our nervous system begins to regulate, we feel more whole and complete, and open to love HW for Day 8: 💙what is your protective shield? what is it protecting you from? 💙who would you be without the shield and if you trusted? 💙how can you open up for more love and authenticity to flow through? 💙 how can you move from contraction to openness? share your insights in the comments below!

Authenticity if your biggest currency... And it's more desired than ever before With AI and chat gbt it seems like every post on instagram is “its not THIS, it’s THIS” type language pattern I don’t know about you, but I can tell and feel when something is written by AI and when it’s by a genuine person And in general things feel performative now on social media… What works nowadays is posts that emotionally trigger people and get them to think Content is competing with the Epstein files and other things going on in the world and therefore people have to create more and more polarizing content to be seen The thing is….the content you consume literally influences your subconscious and shapes how you see the world If I were to watch stimulating reality show drama, I guarantee I would be more tune to drama in my life The RAS (reticular activating system) of the brain will find more and more of what it has been wired to see This is why one thing I do is have strong boundaries around the kind of content I consume I don’t watch horror movies and won't watch things that are toxic for my mind I take breaks from my phone and turn it off by 8pm at night If I do watch something it’s lighter and I prefer to read at night As far as AI and the current state of social media… I have a belief that in the next year or so people will CRAVE more authentic content and REAL experiences This is why I am doubling down on live events… I believe that running live events is something AI won't be to disrupt and is something people crave Coaching people in real time and seeing their emotional breakthroughs is powerful and reflects back a human element that I believe is refreshing And people see themselves in others When I coach people at live events the person being coached reflects back to the group other aspects of themselves And then a healing happens in the nervous system Also fyi the last live event for a while is in Los Angeles California next weekend and early bird tickets are available until Friday if you want to join