Assalam o Alaikum! I am from Pakistan.Happy to be here and thank you for this safe space for us girlies where we can communjcate without hesitation

Just wanted to say Alhamudllilah we've just finished our five day challenge and I'm a bit sad that it's over but also extremely grateful for the opportunity Alhamudllilah. I've met some amazing sisters in this challenge and have learned so much about myself, like posting my feelings publicly 😅 but I would be sad if I didn't thank our teacher @Mindful Muslimah for the exercise to learn and all the kindness and support from the sisters as well. I pray Allāh سبحانه وتعالى continues to bless you all with the Knowledge that is needed to find your righteous, God fearing and practicing Spouses that will be the coolness of your eyes and the Calmness of your hearts امييين يارب العالمين 💜🤲🏽 مع السلامة

Sisters during an EID festival where I live, a brother approached me and stated he was seeking marriage. We exchanged contact information, we met at the masjid the next day and he took me to dinner after to discuss a Wali, intentions, etc. Things took an EXTREME turn as I thought it was going well it became terrible. We met up again for tacos, to discuss him meeting my father (wali), a timeline, etc. He had me pay for the meal, stated that leaders deserve to get there meals paid for and then stated that he felt me and him weren't compatible. He presented me with a list and told me all my rights are going to be taken away and said that he is in charge. The list consisted of things such as a curfew, how he wanted me to cover, etc. a Wali wasn't even involved at this point. He then texted me round 12am and asked to come to my house and dm'ed me on instagram asking if I wanted to get "folded like a pretzel." PLEASE HELP! This is the continuous experiences I am having with brothers where I am meeting in places surrounded by and related to religion (EID festival, masjid fundraiser, masjid volunteering) and every time they seem to sneak sex in the equation. I really feel like giving up. I feel I have gone about things properly, set boundaries, etc. but they continue to test boundaries.

Assalamu Alaikum sisters! This one is for those of you who have been on the apps. I have never tried an app, and i'm terrified of them (creepy men, AI catfishing, general internet scaries...) but this week i have made the commitment to take the plunge and try one. I know there are a few different ones- Muz, Salams, InPairs etc. Do you ladies have any recommendations based on your experiences as to which apps are good/ best? where should I start? For context, I'm based in Canada (I'm not sure if that makes a difference). Jazak Allah khair for your advice! ❤️

Can't wait to see you today at 9 AM EST!! This is Day 5... the LAST day of the challenge and sis, we have saved the absolute BEST for last 🔥💜 We are going deeper, getting more real, and today is the day everything comes together! 📅 TODAY | 9 AM EST 🏆 AND YES! we will be announcing the WINNER of the 1-on-1 coaching session with Mindful Muslimah TODAY LIVE! 🎉 You do NOT want to miss this one! 👇 Register and grab your link to join here: 🔗 https://event.webinarjam.com/xy1gq/register/k6xyru9g Register now, set your alarm, and show up for yourself today sis 🌸 See you in a few hours in shaa Allah! 🤲✨ Drop a 🔥 below if you are showing up today and ready to find out who wins!