Lessons from this: 1. Often, the hotter the girl, the stupider I need to talk and the more (playfully) insulting I can be. I can say any stupid pulse with chest, speak in slang, and I don't need to speak sincerely. Girls like this find normal, sincere stuff boring. 2. Dopamine is your competition. The hottest women are too used to normal bullshit. You need to be more exciting than everything else she could be doing - which is tough to pull off. 3. If you're a 7, pulling a 10 is about confidence. I just say a bunch of dumbass jokes. That equally applies to saying things sincerely and being emotionally available - that also requires confidence. But different women value different types of conversations. 4. They're often boring. The onus is on you to be the conversationalist. That's the cost they paid to be beautiful - they lack personality because they've never had to earn attention with their words. That's not (necessarily) their fault, we learn skills based on the struggles we face. I've had to learn game because I struggled with social anxiety, low self-esteem, mediocre looks, and heartbreak. You work with what you're given. 5. I enjoy who I am with her, but I would miss deep conversations. My conversations with her are non-sense. 6. A light heart protects you from being hurt. Being open, vulnerable and giving everything to one woman left me open to being rejected or overlooked... It hurts. It's exhausting. Tiffany isn't heavy, it's all laughs and raw masculine energy. Just be a gigachad and that's good enough so far. 7. You're not being bold enough. If you search your heart, you know you're not. Some of my lines in this conversation were: "I bet you have a nice laugh. Lucky for me I'm funny, I wanna see you smile all the time." "Oh you're 5'1" exciting. I look forward to grabbing things off the top shelf for you." "Does being short have any benefits? Or is it just being denied access to the rollercoasters?" "It's almost Halloween, you'll be able to get free candy going door to door"