This post made me stop and think where I was 6 months ago and if I could say anything to myself 6 months ago its that you will not be prepared for what's to come, it's not things that you can prepare for they're going to happen and you're not going to be able to stop them, you're going to get hit with a lot of things that are life changing but you're going to be able to handle it it will hurt No Doubt and you will be forced to take it day by day but you will be okay, you will have everything you need all those things you feared would happen actually work out for the better, it will be a nice suprise and your gotta go with the flow and trust attitude is key. Btw all those things you had boundaries for, youre gonna get stuck doing them anyway but u kinda figured that, just not so soon, its not gonna be another 10yrs like you thought, and when it happens its all things happening at once the timing is gonna be painful but you will know she made it to the other side and is very happy and free. You just gotta keep putting one foot in front of the other.

Patience is my super power