Hello! I'm a 32 year old from Nebraska. I'm really excited about this journey to help learn my partners true mental load. We have been together going on 3 years, married for just under a year now. Throughout our time together, we have done a ton of work. We started with couples therapy as a foundation to our relationship. Over the years, my partner has talked more and more about the mental load to things. Not just with household tasks but with the emotional load as well. I'm not the best with knowing my emotions or emotional intelligence at that, but I am learning and have grown a lot in the area and am proud of the progress I've made. We have 4 children, 1 of which is our own and the others are a combination of hers and mine. We both view all of the kids as our kids, so no worries on that end! I am a law enforcement administrator and currently a full time student studying for my pre law degree! Things I want to get from the community: 1. A community of other men in the same position as I 2. Ideas and literature on growth opportunities 3. People to call me on my wrong doings when I am falling short. Things my partner fell in love with me for: 1. My humor 2. My confidence 3. My parenting ability.