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Wake County Parents: The I-9 → Rec → AAU Master Plan (Long-Term > Short-Term)
If your child is in I-9 or Rec, you’re not behind you’re at Year 1 of a 10-year journey. The real goal isn’t to win youth games. The real goal is to develop a confident, skilled, healthy player who’s still improving in high school when college opportunities actually begin. Only a small percentage of high school players go on to play college basketball. That means families who win long-term don’t chase hype they follow a plan. Why Stability Matters More Than Switching Teams Jumping programs may feel like progress, but it often slows development. Staying with a structured program provides: - Consistent teaching and skill progression - Stronger confidence and identity - Smarter workload and fewer overuse injuries - Better long-term enjoyment and retention - Clear development + recruiting roadmap Kids are more likely to quit when sports stop being fun or become chaotic. Stability protects both development and love for the game. The Simple 10-Year Path Ages 5–7 (I-9 / Intro) Focus: Fun + basic coordination Ball handling, footwork, layups, confidence Ages 7–9 (Rec) Focus: Fundamentals Shooting form, defense, passing, spacing Ages 9–11 (Advanced Rec / Prep) Focus: Decision-making Finishing, on-ball defense, simple reads Ages 11–13 (Travel / Early AAU) Focus: Compete + protect development Don’t confuse more games with more growth Avoid burnout and overuse Ages 13–15 (MS → HS Transition) Focus: Skill translation + strength habits Game-speed shooting, body control, conditioning Ages 15–18 (High School) Focus: Recruitable development Skill + grades + film + smart exposure What Your Child Gains by Staying With a Program Not just wins and losses but: - Long-term skill progression - Confidence and role clarity - Healthier training loads - Better family experience - Stronger chance to be recruitable later Wake County Parent Bottom Line The goal is NOT to rush to AAU. The goal is to build a player who lasts. Development beats hype. Stability beats chaos.
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MASTER PLAN
Parent Meeting Recording (2/22/26)
🏀 IVG Parent Alignment Workshop Clarity Creates Confidence. Alignment Builds Champions. 🎯 Purpose Alignment between parents, coaches, and players so development accelerates — on and off the court. We are building young people, not just organizing games. 1️⃣ Practice Structure 🗓 Weekly Schedule 4th–6th Grade – Tues/Thurs (6:00–7:15 PM) 7th–8th Grade – Tues/Thurs (7:00–8:15/8:30 PM) ⏰ Arrival Standard • 15 minutes early • Mentally and physically ready • Early = On Time 🏀 Sunday Clinics • Skill-focused • Coach’s discretion • Optional but encouraged 2️⃣ Game & Tournament Structure 📍 Locations • Rock Quarry Road (Primary) • Lowes Grove (Overflow) 📅 Scheduling • Brackets may shift • Times may change • Stay responsive to updates ⏰ Game Day Standard • Arrive early • Full warm-up required • No rushing Preparation impacts performance. 3️⃣ Uniforms • Parents responsible for care • $50 replacement fee • Represents the brand & culture 4️⃣ Communication Protocol 📲 GroupMe = Official Platform Used for: • Practice updates • Game times • Gym changes • Weather alerts Parents must: • Keep notifications on • Stay responsive 5️⃣ Conflict Resolution Step 1 — 24-Hour Rule Wait before addressing post-game concerns. Step 2 — Speak With Coach Solution-focused conversation. Step 3 — Contact Coach Kevin Scheduled through community platform if unresolved. No parking lot conversations. 6️⃣ Parent Expectations • No yelling at refs, coaches, or players • Positive encouragement only • Respect is non-negotiable Development over drama. 7️⃣ Player Standards Players must: • Give full effort • Be coachable • Show respect • Accept accountability Playing time is earned — not given. 8️⃣ Payments • Must remain current • 5-day grace period • Late payments risk removal Commitment must be mutual. 🧠 Final Alignment ✔ Support effort ✔ Trust coaching ✔ Maintain discipline ✔ Communicate clearly Basketball is the vehicle. Character is the destination. Drop a ✅ once you’ve reviewed and are aligned for the season.
Parent Meeting Recording (2/22/26)
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