1. Checking cell phone or email without permission . 2. Constant put-downs 3. Extreme jealousy or insecurity 4. Explosive temper/constantly starting fights 5. Isolation from family or friends 6. Making false accusations/ Getting angry when you try to defend yourself and confirming the accusations are not true. 7. Creating fear for one's safety 8. Intimidations - induces fear 9. Treats partner like property 10. Controlling - makes all the decisions
1. Jealousy: uses jealousy as a sign of love 2. Intimidation: induces fear 3. Domination: sets all the rules 4. Fault finding: passes judgment and constantly criticizes 5. Possessive: treats partner like property 6. Disrespect: has negative attitudes about women/ Men or other partners 7. Controlling: makes all the decisions 8. Entitled: believes they have the right to say or do whatever 9. Hypocrite: has different standards and rights for self than others 10. Isolation: keeps friends or family away