Coasting is one of the biggest reasons couples start to drift apart. They are no longer intentional about the time they spend with each other. They barely remember to pray for each other or with each other. Life gets in the way and all of a sudden they become roommates, two passing ships drifting past each other of the sea. Next week, we will be doing a 7 day challenge. Nothing too strenuous, but will really help put the spark back into your relationship. If you were to be honest with yourself how much QUALITY time, do you spend with your husband / wife now?

There's a difference. Praying ABOUT your spouse sounds like telling God all the things they're doing wrong and God needs to fix. Praying FOR your spouse sounds like praying for him as a person and what he may or may not be going through. Pray for their health Pray that God will give them strength to overcome whatever struggles they are going through Pray for their peace Pray that everything they do will be in alignment with God's will and be blessed Pray that they will have real joy in life So as you go into the weekend, I challenge you to really pray FOR your spouse.

And before you scroll past thinking "that's not for us" ... hear me out. This is not just for couples who are struggling. It is for any couple who wants more. More depth. More honesty. More of that feeling of being fully known and still chosen. ❤️ The good news? You can work through this together as a couple, or start on your own first. Either way works. Sometimes, one person taking the first step is all it takes. 👣 Inside, you will find three tools built specifically for this community: ✅ The Emotional Intimacy Checklist — find out where you actually are, not where you assume you are. This one has a habit of opening conversations couples didn't know they needed. 💬 The Conversation Starters — 15 questions to take you past the surface. Yes, some of them feel a little uncomfortable. That's usually a sign they're worth asking. 📅 The Reconnection Date Ideas and Seven-Day Plan — practical, doable steps to start closing the gap. No grand gestures required. Go and grab it. Try at least one tool this week. Not eventually. This week. 💪🏾 And when you do, come back and tell us how it landed. What came up? What surprised you? What shifted? That's what this room is for. 🏠💛

You are not here because your marriage is falling apart. You are here because you refuse to coast. This is the space where Christian couples do the real work together. 💖Step 1: Start in the Classroom. That is your home base. Inside, you will find faith-rooted tools, psychology-backed resources, and practical challenges built around communication, conflict, intimacy, and parenting. Start there. Work through it at your own pace. Want something else in there? Let me know, this space is yours! 💖 Step 2: Upgrade to the paid membership. The free community gives you a solid foundation. The paid tier is where you get access to the monthly couples challenges, Couples sessions and talks. It is where the deeper work happens. https://www.skool.com/the-kingdom-marriage-room-3630/plans 💖 Step 3: Go further with coaching If you and your spouse are ready for personalised support, one-to-one coaching is available in the VIP section. This is for couples who want more than community. They want change. https://www.skool.com/the-kingdom-marriage-room-3630/plans 💖 Step 4: Introduce yourself Drop a comment below. Tell us your name, how long you have been married or together, and one thing you are hoping to build in your marriage this year. Glad you are here. Now, let us get to work.

Hey everyone, I would like to do a 21 day challenge this month, but to make sure I am doing one that would be most beneficial for you, would you want the challenge to be something you do that has a positive impact on your marriage e.g a 21 day appreciation challenge OR Would you prefer something you have to do together as a couple eg 21 day connection couples connections challenge? Thank you in advance! You are the best.