Speaking Another Language
I wanted to post about an experience I had yesterday which helped me realize that finding my way into this community is a big, ever-growing miracle in my life. I didn't specifically try to find a curriculum for learning communication. It found me, and it continues to help me learn and grow and integrate my past and my present to create the future that feels aligned with my true self. 'Cross-cultural communication.' Alice mentioned this term in a post 2 days ago, 'Who is this community for.' Yesterday, I had the chance to reconnect over a call with a lady that I knew in Honduras when I was there in 2016. I became fluent in Spanish during that time, talking to locals all day, every day. I can still fluidly comprehend written and spoken Spanish, and writing comes fairly easy, but speaking costs me more, and sometimes I can't readily find the words I need to express my ideas. During the call with my friend, I expressed my struggle to her, and she said that despite my imperfect vocabulary, she was able to understand the ideas I was trying to get across. Maybe it was the intent behind my words, or the tone I was using. It reminded me of something Alice teaches, that there is much more to communication than vocabulary. It was magical to apply in real time the things I'm learning here, like slowing down and staying confident. Communication is universal, the language for human connection, and I'm glad to be learning it here.