Happy & Blessed GOOD Friday, Godly Wives!! I declare and decree that a spirit of gratitude is rising up in each and every one of us today!! You will see what God has placed in yourself, your husband, and in your marriage and you will give Him thanks in Jesus name!! (1 Thessalonians 5:18) ⏬️⏬️ Reflection— WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT? As you work through this week's challenge I ask you to consider the following: What are you looking at in your marriage every day? Because here is what I have learned — and I had to learn this the hard way: What you consistently LOOK AT becomes what you BELIEVE. And what you believe determines how you BEHAVE. And how you behave shapes the marriage you are living in. The reality is that most wives in hard marriages have been so focused on everything that is wrong — everything he is not doing, everything that is missing, every promise that has not been kept — that they have lost the ability to see anything else. And I understand that completely. I have been there. But here is what God showed me: a wife who cannot find anything to be grateful for in her marriage has lost her vision. And a wife who has lost her vision cannot lead herself — let alone influence her husband. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 — "In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you." (KJV) IN EVERY THING. Not when things are perfect. Not when he gets it right. In EVERY thing — because gratitude is not a feeling, it is a WEAPON. And it is one of the fastest ways to shift your vision from what the enemy wants you to see to what GOD wants you to see. 📝 Today's Vision Reflection: As you sit with this week's challenge today — add this: Write down 5 things you are genuinely grateful for about your husband or your marriage. Not what you wish were true. What IS true right now. Then thank God for each one out loud & share at least 1 with your husband today. ✅️ Declare below: "By faith, I choose to give thanks in ALL things!" then tell us 1 thing you're thanking God about your husband today.

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My husband, Clinton III is a new creation of Christ!!

We had a set back that began last weekend after what I thought was a good 4hr visit. There was a moment last week when I told him that I didn’t mind waiting because I believed God told me he would come home one day. He didn’t get upset straightaway but after about 30 minutes he began to share something that happened at the place he was staying. It’s uncomfortable there and they have been undermining my marriage for years. Anyway, he didn’t speak to me all week and it was a hard week for me emotionally. At every turn the enemy has come against me and my perform at work is beginning to suffer. I didn’t sleep well this week and it’s a heavy traveling week for me and I’m late on my car note. Just so many things. So I sent him a message tonight asking if he would be able to fix the lawnmower this weekend. He said yes and then came right over. The text was kind and that was encouraging. But then after he fixed the tire and we sat in the rockers I asked if there was something on his mind and he told me he don’t like that I tried to control him last week by telling him what he was going to do. I apologized and said I shouldn’t have said it and I wouldn’t do it again but he got up and began to leave. I asked why and he said angrily that I wasn’t going to do that to him again and left. I fell apart, again. I’m so sad. My heart hurts bad. I still can’t believe all this is happening.