People going through grief dont always remember the words you say,but they remember how someone made them feel.
Today I set out to go to my daughters school so I ordered a bolt .When the driver arrives he apologises for getting lost and mentions that he had to leave his phone at the garage because he ran out of pertrol and he says everything is falling apart on top of that theres a death and I asked who passed on apparently its his son and he recently lost his mom ,I said sorry when I looked at him he kept wiping his tears . not knowing what to do I reached for his shoulder and started praying for comfort and strength,he son opened up saying how his life has been on a down spiral in the last five years and I listened,I believe there is healing in talking ,and you get to process some things.whn we got to the school I asked for his number and said I'd like to continue praying for him ,I also said I'd invite him to one of the meetings I go to .even if one does not believe in God there is power in group conciousness. Felt good to be there for someone who was feeling hopeless. I would like to work with him when I get qualified .