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4 contributions to ADHD Harmony™
DAY 3
The belief that's been holding me back most: I can't finish what I start; I have commitment issues. Where it came from: my failing grades in school, my losing focus and interest doing other jobs and work just to make money and provide for my family because in the back of my mind what i really wanted to do i was told was something that I could not support a family from or live off of. My new code: I realize i can commit because that exact thing that they told me i couldnt do and was not a career and couldnt make a living from, i actually did for the past 38 years. My Future Self statement: "I am the kind of person who can commit to what i love and enjoy, don't ever let anyone take that from you." Debugging in progress...
MASK-OFF
The mask I've been wearing most: class clown, people pleaser, How exhausting it's been: it has been debilitating. What I loved as a kid (before the masks): music, games, sports, and playing outside. Friction Audit complete. These are the exact steps I have to take: plan to plan, and get mindset back to focusing on making me happy and doing actions for me not others
Just did the deep dive interview
Couldn't name a place at first, had to think a lot. Turns out it's that I became a musician as an adult, on my own, so no matter how much applause I got I never counted it. And the one thing that ever really worked was a commune at 19 where I couldn't just disappear into my room. Still true at 73.
1 like • Sep 9
This resonates with me at 100%. I'm 51, been a DJ since i was 13, then started producing at 26. Was always told to get a "real" job. this is a hobby not a career by not only parents and relatives but by a career ed teacher. That sat with me my whole life and didn't realize it until i found this. And even before i found Jim, i posted on my facebook wall this morning some of my biggest accomplishments as a producer back between 2006-2013. I had many of my remixes in the top of the charts for major artists and indie, 1 even went to #1 around the world. and most of the charts were made by my DJ colleagues, that is major important and big, they are the most critical. But yet i still believed in the back of my head what they were saying and didn't fully believe in myself. i stopped after 2013, until recently when i started back up again. i've been having them blocks here and there. i believe this challenge and community is going to help change all that. Thank you for letting me vent. and thank you Jim.
DAY 1
Biggest insight: I'm not alone, i'm not stupid My open loop is: Booking an Appointment One word for how I feel right now: Relieved
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Joseph Arroyo
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@joseph-arroyo-4826
Please call me "JJ.". lol. I am an entrepreneur, Realtor, and own an entertainment promotion & events Business. And a Small Business Services Company

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Joined Sep 9, 2026
Providence, RI
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