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40 years old, never been on a date, fantasizing about suicide
I am 40 years old, and a virgin. I discovered self-improvement and pickup at the age of 17, and studied diligently, and practiced it. I put 3000 cold approaches under my belt, before I even graduated college. And I continued after that - just stopped counting. I have put in the work. SOOOOO much fucking work. And gotten NOTHING from it. Not even a DATE. Not one woman being sexually interested in me for one split SECOND. EVER. I fantasize about suicide. Every day. All day. I don't want to be here anymore. I started fixing my instagram, but I can't post any photos with girls, because I don't know any girls. I DON'T KNOW ANY GIRLS. I AM 40 FUCKING YEARS OLD, AND I'VE NEVER HAD A FEMALE FRIEND. This is wrong. It's wrong and I want out. This life is pointless. It's evil. Being born was evil and wrong. Everything is wrong.
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Hey man I totally get where you coming from and just to tell you one man to another sometimes doing the same things over and over doesn’t always mean success sometimes. We need to change the way how we think or approach people if you want a women maybe….forgot about sexual shit it will come eventually but try to think about friendships girls love people who just want to be a friend first and sometimes you get lucky cuz they become interested in who you are and they want some but to be honestly man don’t expect nothing out of life just know life’s a bitch and sometimes you gotta grab that bitch from the ass and control your life and not the other. Wayy around remember bro to always take a different approach if the approach you’ve been taking hasn’t worked. For you yet either by thought or action just know one man’s thing doesn’t always work for everyone that’s why where all diffent but similar at the same time doo what feels good and right for you don’t follow other people if you know it won’t work for you life is very weird man sometimes you want something and it won’t give. It to you so you must act like you don’t want it in a sense and it will give it to you it’s just weird keep pushing bro forget depression cuz it seem that life has you pinned down right now
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@Daniel Pugatsky hey man you and me both I need women as much as you do man but I’m saying dont keep your focus on that all the time but when you do try to find a diffent tactic in order to get a women it’s hard I know but when the right tactic that are applied to you that work for you that’s when magic happens just find diffent ways of approaching if not maybe it’s the way you think change the way you think and maybe it will happend just know if one wayy isn’t working find a diffent method cold approaches don’t work for everyone lol
1h •
What motivates you at your lowest?
When you feel drained or maybe confused or stuck what makes you hop out of bed and say “fuck it! I’m doing what I’ve been trying to do all week!”??
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21d •
What Did You Stop Doing?
We talk a lot about adding skills, habits, and routines. Lately I’ve been noticing the opposite has mattered just as much. What’s one thing you stopped doing that noticeably improved your life? Could be a behavior, mindset, habit, relationship dynamic, or time sink. Not looking for theory, just real-world changes that actually stuck.
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@Max Peck wow that sounds very interesting bro ima. Look into it !
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@Max Peck you got it man!
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What make you feel certain about something you want to do or follow
Is there steps tour ask yourself before You do it completely? Do you think about just going for it without thought? Do weight the cons and pros then do it ? Act before your think or think before your act ? Depends what it is and that’s when you do or think?
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Dec '25 •
What’s the right way to getting girls attention while pursuing your option?
What would you do if az women that you think is cute said “ooo who did you pull this time?” But don’t want to push her away but at the same time create space and keep her attracted still but give you that line and sink so she would put you in that position? What’s protocol for that?
1 like • Jan 1
@Felix Urbanek exactly! What I meant to say bro ! On the dot 🔥 honestly nothing anymore. Man before it was cuz I was to skinny and I never could put on weight then I got ripped after that I got fat and the problem was I didn’t know how to loose so much weight now there’s no excuse I’ve experienced being on both sides of the books skinny anorexic and obisity right Now I’m just trying to accomplish getting bulky buff and lean basically be in the best shape of my life and all it’s taking me right now is more time to work out cuz I have the discipline already just got it this year but I’ve got super busy outta of no where so ig I would say time management would be something to work on… is there anything you’d like to work on or accomplish this year with your physique ?
1 like • Jan 10
@Felix Urbanek Bet I got you bro my insta is legendking1998 I will follow back you can count on that
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@jose-salinas-1302
upcoming artist named Legendking 👑 I make R&B music 🎶 🎤 I’m on my grind working out to get muscular lean body while working 80+ hr💪 and learning
Active 39m ago
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