Went to a bar last night, got a girl’s name and bought her a drink and she left so soon after that with her friends. Can’t lie the game can be very funny sometimes. However! Now I know for next time Imma strike a full convo with her first cause apparently according to my friends I should’ve went back to go talk with her after her drink got delivered. We all start from somewhere people!

Is it… - Saying the wrong thing - Awkward silence - Getting rejected - Looking “weird” or nervous - Catching feelings too fast - Or… freezing up completely? I personally have all of these fears at once haha Drop the one fear that hits you the hardest, even if you’ve never said it out loud. 👇 You’re not alone in this. And chances are… someone here feels the exact same way.

Saw a vid yesterday that basically said this: “If you’re worried about talking to someone and coming off like a creep, you’re not a creep, cause creeps don’t think about not coming off like a creep. Whoever you’re talking to will pick up on that.” Really wanted to share this cause that was one hell of a realization.

Noticed a girl looking at me at the gym, and when I looked at her she instantly looked away. However this time instead of looking away myself I just kept looking at her and smiled to then which she smiled back. I would NOT have done that a few months ago. Looking away was a damn instinctual response almost for most of my life. Nice to see proof of actual growth in myself.

Met Jason last week in an in-person event :) otw back to the airport he shared this wisdom at first it seemed small, but the more i've thought about it, the deeper it gets... so i feel I HAVE TO SHARE WITH YA'll <3 1. 💎 The power of asking 💎 It's always a no unless you ask. Every time you ask, you reveal a door for opportunity, whether it opens or not, who knows? But unless you ask, you won't ever get to the door. Asking leads to conversations, and conversations lead to adventures. 🌄 Plus, it's a muscle that gets stronger with use💪 Each "no" becomes a learning experience in handling rejection, and honestly? The more you ask, the less scary it gets ✊ 2. 💎 Dates never grow alone 💎 (And no, not those kinds of dates 😂) So apparently date trees don't like being loners - they're planted together in groves because they literally grow better when they're around other date trees. They thrive in clusters, supporting each other🌴 Kind of beautiful when you think about it, right? We're the same way. We grow strongest when we're surrounded by people who get us, challenge us, and cheer us on. That's exactly what we've built here - our own little grove where everyone can flourish together 💕 3. 💎 Being happy is a skill 💎 I asked Jason what he was good at growing up. I mentioned I played tennis my whole life and got pretty good at it... He surprised me by saying "being happy." 😊 His dad always told him that too, that being happy, being good vibes, was his superpower. Happiness isn't just something that happens to you, it's something you can actually get better at ☀️ p.s. also learned fanta goes HARD during a hike :)