We did our first wedding gig two weekends back. It was fun, educational, and a great experience. BUT, major issues including the outdoor ceremony was a quarter mile from rec3ption hall over rocky terrain and no transportation. We did not know this was the case. The outdoor space was pasture land with cow patties and horse apples littering the group. So, the question is this, what do you ask of a venue or client prior to agreeing to play, and actually playing? We are not looking for a "no brown M&Ms contract. Just basic logistics. Thanks.

I have a played gigs at a restaurant a number of times and they seem to have gone well. But lately the owner has been giving me the cold shoulder and getting other musicians for the summer season. Do I take offence or just suck it up and move on? If I get a call eventually in the dead of winter, do I take it anyways? Anyone else experience this?

Hey gang! I was just curious what is the current gigging gear that you are using. Are you using pedals? Do you have your own portable PA? What guitar(s)? etc. Here is my gear: I am trying to keep things real simple... Guitar: Taylor 214ce Deluxe in Sunburst Pedal: TC Helicon Harmony Singer 2 PA: Harbinger MLS1000 Mic: Shure SM58 (Back-up Shure Beta 58) I have been toying with the idea of adding a Beat Buddy or maybe a simple kick drum pedal. Your turn...

Are you doing word of mouth? Agent? We use two apps, one is Bark.com, and the other is Gig Salad. I'd be interested in hearing what everyone else is doing to drum up business. Thanks

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