Hay una gran diferencia cuando observamos lo que hacemos nosotros y lo que hacen los demás. Cuando hacemos o decimos algo, CONOCEMOS la intención y podemos corregirlo rápidamente si nos expresamos mal. Cuando otras personas hablan o actúan, solo podemos interpretar lo que quisieron decir. Antes de juzgar a los demás, podemos recordar que su INTENCIÓN puede ser diferente de sus ACCIONES o PALABRAS. Y, si es apropiado, podemos pedir más claridad. Understanding others There is one big difference when we look at what we do and what others do. When we do or say something, we KNOW the intent and can correct it quickly if we mis speak. When other people speak or act, we can only interpret what they meant. Before we judge others, we can remember that their INTENTION may be different from their ACTION/WORDS. And if appropriate, we can ask for more clarity.

I just noticed your level names on the leaderboard @Andrew Nelson This is hilarious!! 🤣🤣🤣

A big welcome for @Relic Wessels from South Africa. Relic is his REAL name:) He is an (Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy) REBT specialist. You can ask him about it, but it is extremely effective behavior change stuff based in Modern Applied Psychology to improve lives. It works. He has worked with me, like these have also worked with me...Tina and Renée, and Jenny.

We started by inviting one friend...and his small family for today. Then, my extended family was planning something.....so we invited them too. We went from 4 to 7 and now it is 27. Not sure if I will see much of the match.

So, yesterday my daughter (12) started "revealing" stuff from school and said "My German teacher hates me". So, I challenged her. How do you know that? Did you ask her if she hated you? No, of course not. Well, how do you know then, can you mind read? No. But here's the truth, within our own heads we "make up stories". We are meaning making machines and often we are barking up the wrong tree. Tell us about a time you or someone you know "got the wrong end of the stick" by just thinking it.