Sometimes when I’m on a call and I’m choosing to have my camera off for one of a variety of reasons, the host will basically insist everybody must be seen or else you’re hiding. I find that highly annoying. Anyone else? Maybe I’m eating my lunch and I don’t need people to watch me chewing on a screen. Maybe I’m moving through a space and I don’t wanna make everyone seasick. Maybe I’m having a PJs all day and I just don’t feel like showing my PJs on the camera. Maybe I’m just not in the damn mood to be on a camera In my world, it’s your choice. I can’t speak for anybody else’s room, but in mind? That choice of showing yourself on camera or not should be up to each one of us. When I’m doing a call, you may choose to be seen or not to be seen. Even if you’re asking a question you don’t have to turn your camera on to ask the question… Unless you choose to, and unless you feel like it. There’s no pressure to perform. Inclusiveness is one of my strongest values. Each one of us is a sovereign being. You get to choose. As long as you honor that we have differences and we can still communicate and be civil to each other despite any differences, we’re fine. On or off camera, Christian, or which or Buddhist or nothing, whatever. Your choice Are you typically a camera off or camera on or it depends person?

Normally I only allow link sharing for level 6 and above, but this is an exception in threads like this. Anyone at any level you may put your YouTube channel link and info here. Put a few words (not a novel) about who you serve on your YouTube channel, and add the link. That way people can see if they feel it's potentially aligned before clicking through. ‼️But don't post and ghost. Be sure to come and look for people whose channels you're genuinely interested in. I'm not asking you to follow everybody. Just follow those that are of interest to you so that we can all help each other out. I'll put mine in the comments like everybody else.

If you're on TikTok, you may share ONE channel here in this thread (all levels, free and paid tiers). What to do: 1. 1. Share a few words about who your channel's for/what you do on your TT plus your link, 2. 2. and of course, find other Haveners whose account interests you. This is about reciprocity. You do NOT have to follow everyone unless you feel inspired to do so. Please don't post and ghost.

This post is brought to you by the letter W and the number 20 . WISHES I hope you’re having a good day. If you’re in the US, it’s Father’s Day. For some, this is a wonderful time to get together with your dad. If that is the case for you, I wish you a good time and good connection. If you’re like myself, and you grieving that your daddy is no longer in your life, I wish you comfort. I feel the feels right there with you. It can be a rough day for us. Happy solstice to you! Whether you are at the beginning of summer or winter, I hope the next season brings clarity, prosperity, good health, and comfort whenever you need it. WELCOME Let’s welcome some new members! @Lisa Pearlman @David Cabot @Celia Kibler @Soph Newman THE WEEK AHEAD Today we have a fun bingo game! All to help you with your energetic hygiene Tomorrow is a coworker session for level two and above. So if you’re new, make sure the check out the welcome and level up post so we can help you get to level two and be able to attend the First time I tended a coworking session I really wasn’t sure what I would think of it, but then I discovered it is actually very useful to have everyone in the energy of finishing things. #Skool Events Daily is a place. I share events and some of you do as well! You can see the calendar attached. Just download it and check it out. You’ll be able to link to all the events you might like to attend. WEIRDNESS Now for the weirdness. What’s something about you people have said is weird that you now totally embrace and celebrate!

I just had an experience this morning that made me say... You KNOW I'm an empath from that!" Getting ready for a live event and the other person involved said she had a head cold. Me: "I knew something was up with you. My sinuses hurt when I read your message." What's yours? 👇👇👇