I’ll make a longer video about this in a few days, but for now, a quick post: Most men have a “starting problem.” Simply put: you’re not approaching. The core issue isn’t just that you’re nervous. It’s that you think you have to be good at approaching before you approach. And it goes deeper than that. For years, your brain has been fed images of guys approaching—TV shows, movies, YouTube, even watching guys like me. What you see is always the finished product, the highlights. And when your mind compares itself to that constantly, it stops you from taking action, because you don’t have any real way to replicate what you see. Here’s something important: Let’s take two guys, A and B, who want to meet women: Guy A: He doesn’t take any action.Guy B: He takes action—but he’s feminine, non-threatening, and gets friend-zoned. Guy A cannot improve. He does nothing, so there’s nothing to refine. Guy B, on the other hand, can be trained, guided, and improved. His timing, his posture, his eye contact, his strategy, his mindset, his frame—we can build all of that. We can turn him into a master. Btw, I was Guy B. I started out just approaching, being “friendly” and “non-threatening.” Over the course of two months, I killed my approach anxiety. From there, I refined my flirting, my frame, my strategy. Everything was built on a foundation of consistent action. Most of you reading this lack that foundation. If you’re not approaching consistently, there’s no base to build on. No matter what you learn, it won’t stick. If you want to start taking action today and build that foundation properly, I do one-on-one coaching calls where I take care of your biggest sticking points in dating—fix your approach, your timing, your frame—so you can start seeing results fast. 💡 One-hour call: €99. Message me here if you want in.

To make the group welcoming for everyone here as well as maximize your own results with women and overall social life please take a moment to introduce yourself. Let us know who you are! 1. Your first name 2. Where you’re based 3. Your current sticking point in dating / social life 4. What’s currently stopping you from achieving your dating and social goals. ✅ Example: “Hey I’m Mark, based in Berlin. My biggest sticking point is overthinking and freezing when I see a girl I want to talk to. What’s currently stopping me from achieving my dating and social goals is that I keep making excuses for myself and never asserting myself in social situations.” Feel free to go super deep, the more you share the more you grow. Welcome to the community — this is where shit gets real. Let’s go. 🚀🔥

Your mission this week is simple: Get an instant date Meet a girl and take her somewhere right away. Walk, coffee or drink. No number, no texting. Just in the moment. 🎯 I just dropped the full breakdown in the classroom — go watch it here:👉 https://www.skool.com/the-cold-approach-brotherhood-7294/classroom/b584874e?md=07ad69a26329400097a97b79a7c95f26 Then come back and COMMENT your result below. Whether you pulled or got blown out — doesn’t matter. Taking action is what counts. Remember that this is a daily mission for the whole week so you got the entire week to get it handled. Aim to do 3-5 approaches a day to get this mission done. Extra: if you're courageous take a selfie mid-date with the girl casually ask ''hey, let's take a pic real quick'' and then post it here in the comment section as well. Let’s do this. — Jayden

🔥 Natural Game Insight #1 — How to Get Laid For Real This one goes deep. No theory. No fluff. Just raw, honest, actionable insight on how to actually connect with women and make it real. If you're tired of overthinking, feeling stuck, or being fake — this is for you. Watch it here inside the classroom:👉 https://www.skool.com/the-cold-approach-brotherhood-7294/classroom/3a07028d?md=d7433d34100943a1b074f771f277cb8e

This is your first step to leveling up your game and mindset. Watch this video to get a feel for what we’re about and how to crush the missions ahead. Let’s get after it. 💪