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4 contributions to The Confidence Skool
Should I Leave My Partner If I Like Someone Else? A Nice Guy's Dilemma
A lot of people struggle with how to stay loyal in a relationship when they often feel attraction towards other people, and sometimes are even tempted into thoughts about cheating. It's even harder when you're in a long distance relationship. Why do people cheat? Often, the main reason people commit acts of infidelity, is because they can't handle the pressure of not being able to talk about their feelings of attraction toward other people, and it haunts their minds. Should i break up with my girlfriend? Should i break up with my boyfriend? Before you can answer these difficult questions, you first need to explore why you feel the urge to leave for someone else. Sometimes it's just the pressure of commitment in a relationship that makes it tempting to stray. If you're wondering how to leave your husband or wife, or when to leave a relationship that you're deeply committed to, you must learn to look past your attraction for others and understand the deeper psychology behind your desire to leave. It's hard to figure out how to know when to end a relationship and leave for somebody else. Is it just a brief attraction, or something much more significant, like true love? And it can be just as challenging from the other side, when you're the one liking someone in a relationship and they are unsure about their loyalty to their partner. It can be tempting to encourage them to cheat. Long term relationships are hard, particularly long distance relationships. There will always be temptations to cheat, because there will always be attraction. Why do men cheat? Why do women cheat? Answering these questions all comes down to understanding what is happening in your brain and body when you're attracted to someone else.
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Your gray beard is gone - you’re getting younger, @Daniel Munro :) I like the way you explain attraction vs connection. Very clear! And it's so true that you can fake attraction, but never connection. You also make it very clear how to decide in each situation. Evergreen video 👍
Early access for my Brotherhood members (pls read asap)
Hey guys Tomorrow or the day after, I’m going to send out an offer to my larger audience. But as the spaces are really limited, I first wanted to give you guys the opportunity to jump in first. Check it out here: A Different Way to Work With Me If you've been thinking about working with me but have been waiting for the right time, this is probably your best chance. After 13 years of coaching, I'm experimenting with a different idea. For the month of August only - or until all the available spaces are filled - I’m giving you 2 opportunities to seriously accelerate your progress. I don’t plan to run this offer again. 1) LIFETIME BROTHERHOOD MEMBERSHIP Lifetime access to the Brojo Premium “Brotherhood” Membership - Fortnightly live workshops, plus all recordings of previous workshops - Permanent access to every course I've ever created… and every course I will create in the future. - DM support from me One time payment of $799 (i.e. normally $99/month) → Claim your lifetime membership Limited to 7 people only 2) THE INTEGRITY PARTNERSHIP Personal support from me for the next 12 months - Fortnightly 1:1 private coaching sessions - Unlimited email and Whatsapp support during the coaching - Complimentary Brotherhood Premium membership - Lifetime free access to all current and future courses - Ongoing online support after the coaching finishes One time payment of $7,999 (i.e. equivalent to paying for only 9 months of coaching) → Enrol in the partnership Limited to 3 people only (P.S. You must have completed at least a free trial coaching session first) So if you’re ready to upgrade from just watching podcasts to making measurable improvements to your life, both of these offers got you covered. (The links will be deactivated after the quota of enrollments is filled).
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Thanks for sharing this with us in advance. This Integrity Partnership looks really good. I wish I had more traction and didn’t have so many responsibilities with my second (main) job. Otherwise, I’d be considering it. Ofc $7,999 sounds pricey (for an European) not because I don’t think it’s worth the money, but probably because of the psychological effect of a big number (price of a second hand good brand car). Though it’s definitely a great discount. In the end, I hope everything works out for you and all three spots get filled!
A Lesson In Resilience
I received a rejection email from a job that I was a finalist on. Given my technical experience and my preparation for the interview, I thought I would have a great chance of getting the job and have a sense of relief by moving forward with my career. However, that wasn’t the case, and I felt crushed after getting that rejection. Although I enjoyed my interview with the team and time spent onsite in their lab, I realize I need to keep moving with my job search. Throughout my life, I struggle with resilience and willingness to handle a hassle. The job market is much more difficult than it was in 2023. Now, I am working on improving my resilience by working harder in my job search to network a lot more and work on my interview skills. Normally a rejection would stay with me for longer than it should. Now, I can’t let one upset derail me from building my career.
3 likes • Jun 21
I know how it feels, Travis. The job market has definitely changed a lot since 2023. It's tough, and some of these things are completely out of our control. But stay strong, mate! Things are always changing - not just for the worse, but for the better too. It's all ups and downs. As you wrote, it really is about resilience and just keeping going, because better days are coming, for sure. Wishing you better luck next time!
Authentic Rules of Dating
Download the free guide here - like a quick cheat sheet to go along with the workshop series we're doing at the moment
1 like • Jun 21
Thanks for sharing, Dan. If I counted correctly, that's 69 rules in total. It sounds like a lot, but some of them (like the rules about confidence) could easily be broken down into several smaller rules. And that's the fact - dating and attraction do have rules. There's a natural design and purpose behind them. That's why people say - attraction isn't a choice. So, there's no point in arguing with the rules, hating them, or thinking they're "unfair" - because we can't change people's nature or the way the world works. Therefore, there's no need to waste our energy and emotions on this. As I see it, it's good just to be aware of these rules. But what's even more important is getting out there and talking to people. So, it's not really about following all the rules - it's about being aware of them while mostly enjoying the process of socializing. At least, that's how I understand the idea. Cya at the workshop!
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