(7) For as he thinks in his heart, so is he [in behavior -- one who manipulates]. He says to you, "Eat and drink," Yet his heart is not with you [but it is begrudging the cost]. Speak God's Word As I think in my heart, so am I "Proverbs 23:7"

(17) Listen carefully and hear the words of the wise, And apply your mind to my knowledge; (18) For it will be pleasant if you keep them in mind [incorporating them as guiding principles]; Let them be ready on your lips [to guide and strengthen yourself and others].

(23) Watch your words and be careful what you say, and you'll be surprised how few troubles you'll have.

(11) Good sense and discretion makes a man slow to anger, And it is his honor and glory to overlook a transgression or an offense [without seeking revenge and harboring resentment].

(4) The words of a man's mouth are like deep waters [copious and difficult to fathom]; (10) The name of the Lord is a strong tower; The righteous runs to it and is safe and set on high [far above evil]. (16) A man's gift [given in love or courtesy] makes room for him And brings him before great men. (21) Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it and indulge it will eat its fruit and bear the consequences of their words