Throwing something on is costing you more than you think âŚ
Hey Baddie đ Letâs be honestââthrowing something onâ is not as innocent as you think it is. It feels small. Like youâre just in a rush, not in the mood, or donât feel like thinking. But what youâre actually doing in that moment is defaulting to how you feel instead of deciding how you want to be perceived. And thatâs where it starts to cost you. This is what I mean when I talk about dressing from the mirror vs the window. The mirror says: âIâm tired, Iâm off, I donât feel like it todayââso you dress down into that version of yourself.The window says: âWhere am I going, who am I becoming, and how do I need to be received?ââand you dress for that. Be real⌠a lot of you are dressing from the mirror and then confused why youâre not being seen the way you want. When you âthrow something on,â your presence becomes inconsistent. One day you look powerful, the next day you disappear. And people arenât sitting there analyzing itâthey just feel it. When your image isnât clear, your identity doesnât land. And when your identity doesnât land, you get underestimated. Every time. The women who are seen, respected, and paid at higher levels? Theyâre not leaving that up to chance. Even their casual is intentional. Even their âI didnât tryâ still communicates something aligned. So no⌠weâre not doing âI just threw this onâ anymore. Pause and decide. Who are you showing up as today? And what does she wearâwithout hesitation? Affirmation ⌠I donât dress for my mood. I dress for my power. My presence is intentional, consistent, and impossible to overlook. Tell where are you still dressing from the mirror instead of the window?