House Rules of Iron & Ink
This place is a workshop, not a lounge. These rules are here so the work can stay sharp and clean. 1. Come as a weapon in progress - You are not a brand here. You are a student and a craftsman. - Speak as yourself, not as a persona or a sales page. - Owning your mess is respected. Posturing is not. 2. Radical responsibility - No whining without willingness. If you bring a problem, be ready to work it. - You are responsible for your choices, your reactions, and your results. - “They made me” is not an acceptable frame. We look for the move you can make. 3. Plain speech, clean conflict - Say what you mean in simple language. - Attack problems, not people. - Honest disagreement is welcome. Contempt, insults, and drama are not. - If you are heated, cool down before you post. 4. Privacy and the circle - Treat what people share here as belonging to the circle. - Do not screenshot or repeat personal details outside the group without clear permission. - Stories used as teaching examples should be anonymized unless the person explicitly agrees. 5. No pedestals, no gurus - I am a guide and a fellow practitioner, not a savior. - Question ideas. Test methods. Keep your sovereignty. - Do not recruit followers here, for any path, teacher, or ideology. 6. Work before performance - Share attempts, drills, and experiments more than polished victories. - Theory and clever takes are fine only if they point back to practice. - If a post has no clear connection to mind, body, or ink, rethink it. 7. Respect the body - No encouragement of self harm, starvation, or reckless stunts. - Hard training is welcome. Stupidity disguised as toughness is not. - If you give physical advice, stay inside your competence. 8. Respect the mind - No bullying, dogpiling, or mocking people for their current level. - Challenge each other with the intention to sharpen, not to dominate. - If someone asks for support, read carefully before you answer.