Is the adult industry ruining dating for men?

In this interview, I explain how evolutionary psychology is the key to understanding female attraction and why many high-achieving men see a decline in desire within their marriages. I draw on the work of experts like Dr. David Buss to show that attraction isn't based on being "nice" or doing chores like taking out the trash; rather, it’s triggered by masculine cues of status, competence, and what I call "mate choice copying" or pre-selection [03:21]. I emphasize that when men get married, their testosterone levels often drop and they may lose the "edge" or the social alignments with other attractive women that initially made them desirable. My goal is to teach men how to maintain these evolutionary triggers—such as physical fitness, social status, and firm boundaries—to ensure they don't become "invisible" to their partners over time [23:08]. I also dive deep into the concept of "pre-selection," explaining that women are biologically wired to find men more attractive when they see that other women also desire them [27:51]. This is why I advocate for men to build strong social circles and maintain their "stock value" even after they are wed. I touch on the dangers of neediness and how seeking constant validation from a spouse can inadvertently signal "low status," causing a woman's attraction to dry up [39:14]. Ultimately, I believe that by understanding these hard-wired biological mechanisms, men can stop being manipulated by modern social narratives and instead lead their relationships with the confidence and status that keeps genuine desire alive [48:13].

Just watched @Michael Sartain's latest video "The Modern Man’s Crisis Why Most Men Are Lost" and learned a lot. So here are 3 lessons from the video 1. The bar for succeeding as a man is really low these days. Most men don't have their shit together and can't even go talk with an attractive woman properly. 2. Events are great for meeting beautiful women since it's easier to start conversations and hang out with them. It's often some sort of common ground you have with it, like if it's a charity event, etc. 3. Scarcity Mindset Limits Opportunities Many men believe they only have access to certain “levels” of women, which limits their behavior. This league mentality creates passivity and stops them from even starting conversations. Being in the right environments and having an open mindset creates far more opportunities. Which one do you resonate the most with?

Small towns are underrated for building incredible social circles. If you don’t live in a big city then this video is a requirement for you.

many many months ago, I decided to go through and mute all the women's accounts I was following on IG. I did it to keep me from reacting to all the thirsts and posts and stuff. But now, I find that I'm just not on anyone's radar. A friend had a birthday post that I missed / didn't know about. Things like that. Maybe it's supposed to feel this way. Maybe I shouldn't be on anyone's radar until I fix my IG. And I'm on my way to better behaviors and situations. But what do you think on first hearing this?