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Owned by Grace

For women 45+ reclaiming the dreams they set aside. You've edited yourself long enough. Decide what stays.

9 contributions to Own Your Second Chapter
Artist unknown — if you know who made this, tell me.
Two strangers made my week, and I never met either of them. One raked this into the sand at Brighton beach and left before anyone arrived. It'll be gone by tonight's tide. 🌊 The other paid for my coffee in the line ahead of me and disappeared before I got to the counter. ☕ Neither of them will ever know they made it into a post on the other side of the internet. Your turn: what's the nicest thing a stranger has ever done for you? Or have you ever been the stranger? 👇
Artist unknown — if you know who made this, tell me.
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https://www.facebook.com/share/1Pe8YKu3ay/?mibextid=wwXIfr I found who the artist is - Sue Norman. Take a look at her work- it’s so uplifting and what a beautiful way to touch people’s hearts ❤️
Why I look for beauty in the dark (and what it says about your second chapter) 🖤
As an artist, I have a confession: for the last 20 years, I have been completely obsessed with photographing shadows. I've captured them everywhere - cast by laundry on the line, furniture, dogs, trees, people, clouds. I take the photos back to my studio and paint them. I love abstract painting, but whenever I try to paint pure realism, I feel incredibly frustrated. It feels like a constraint, just recording what is already there instead of interpreting it. But shadows? Shadows are the perfect bridge. They are anchored in something real, but they warp, stretch, and flatten into beautiful, unpredictable abstract shapes. They strip away the messy, loud details of life and leave behind pure form, mood, and mystery. It's the same trap I see so many of us fall into with our next phase of life. When we think about picking up a dream we left behind, we get stuck in "realism mode": Is it too late? Do I have the time? What if it isn't perfect? We try to replicate a path that might not fit who we are today. But your second chapter doesn't have to be a rigid, perfect copy of your past. Sometimes the most freeing thing you can do is look at the "shadow" of that old dream - the essence of it, the core desire, the feeling it gave you - and give yourself total creative freedom to reinvent it. This is exactly why I started this business, and it's what I'm doing right now. For a long time, I kept my own art quiet, showing only at selected galleries and staying off social media. But I knew it was time to live what I teach. My new website is being designed as we speak, and I'm right here in the trenches with you, beginning my very own second chapter. To the special women in this community: What is a dream you’ve left behind that feels a little too intimidating or rigid to pick up right now? How can we soften the edges and find a new, freer way to bring it to life? Drop your thoughts below—let’s talk about rewriting our rules. 👇
Why I look for beauty in the dark (and what it says about your second chapter) 🖤
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@Jocelyn Barker Thanks Jocelyn, I love that, "look but not stay there" is such a good way to put it! That's really what the shadow is: you borrow the shape of the old dream without moving back in. And thank you for being honest that you're still working on it. Most of us are, and that's the beauty of a safe space like this.
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@Diana Trepkov Thank you, Diana 🩷 That's so lovely to hear. Have a look at the light on your walls this week, it's amazing what turns up! Have fun xx
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Hi lovely friends, how are you today? Let's take a minute before the day runs away with us. Where are you right now: in your head, in your body, or in your feelings? Busy and on edge, or fairly calm? Whatever the answer, drop your shoulders and breathe out slowly, longer than you breathed in. Do that three times. Feel your feet on the floor. Now think about the dream you put down years ago, and picture yourself living it for a moment. What does it feel like? I'd love to hear in the comments. 🤍
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One honest step, no hype:
You don't have to feel motivated to move today. You just have to move like you're already becoming her. Here's the thing about creating a new version of yourself — it's not only a mindset shift, it's in the body too. Every time you sit up straighter, take the stairs, or go for a walk you didn't feel like taking, you're not "exercising." You're rehearsing who you're becoming. So here's one step, not twelve: today, take a 10-minute walk, and while you do it, walk like the woman you're creating — not the one you've been. Shoulders back. Unhurried. Curious about her own life again. That's it. One walk. One small, honest rehearsal of the person you're building. I started Own Your Second Chapter because I know what it's like to feel like your body and your dreams have been sitting in storage for years. Turns out you don't need permission to take them back out. You just need one small step, done on purpose and make sure you smile! Who are you rehearsing to become this week? I'll start: I'm rehearsing not overthinking everything — being calm, remembering to "smile", being in the moment, instead of living three steps ahead of myself.
One honest step, no hype:
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@Jocelyn Barker yes, it’s an age old saying too. I remember my mum telling me to walk tall and shoulders back when I was little. There’s lots of different spins on the same motto but it really is true, you even feel more powerful doing it.
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@Diana Trepkov Diana, thanks for your beautiful words of encouragement. If I could shine half as brightly as you do, I’d be very happy! ✨🤩⭐️
Welcome!
Hi everyone! Welcome to the group. I built this space to help you achieve the dreams you left behind. Let's break the ice, Drop a comment below and tell me: 1 Your name 2 What you do (or what brought you here) 3 Your #1 current goal/dream So happy to have you here! Let's get to work.
Welcome!
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@Jocelyn Barker Jocelyn, I’m so glad you’re here, and thank you for trusting this space with something so real and personal 🌹 Your line about life being chapters, and needing to turn the page to grow, really touched me. And after a health scare like that… it makes sense that something in you said “enough waiting, it’s time to choose me.” That’s bravery! I especially love how you described your goal, a life of service that still lets you stay present in your own life. Not one or the other, but both. And serving from a full cup, not an empty one. Continue to stop and smell the roses whenever you can 🌹🌹 I’m honored to be part of this second chapter with you. Welcome home. 💖💖
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Grace Ferrier
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