Father, This is one of the hardest prayers I've ever had to pray. Because I can't fix this. And I am their parent. Fixing things is what I do. But this one is outside my hands and I don't know how to sit in that without falling apart. They are hurting. And I would take every ounce of it if I could. But You knew this was coming. You allowed it. And I have to trust even when it makes no sense that You are working in what I can only see as pain. Give me the wisdom to know when to speak and when to sit with them in silence. When to point them to You and when to just hold them. When to intercede and when to let them find their own way to Your feet. Don't let this break them. Let it build something in them that couldn't be built any other way. And while You're working in them do something in me too. Because watching my child hurt is revealing things in me that I still need You to heal. I trust You with them. Even tonight. In Jesus' name. Amen.

Kingdom University, it is time to reset. Not just our parenting. Not just our discipline. Not just our routines. Our homes. Starting tomorrow we are doing a 7 day Bible plan together as a community and I want every single one of you in it. It is called They're Not Bad Kids: You Just Need a System. This is not about your child being a problem. This is about you being equipped. Because most of the chaos in our homes is not a child problem. It is a system problem. A structure problem. A "nobody ever showed me how to build this" problem. And God has something to say about that. 7 days. Together. Starting tomorrow. Here is the link 👇🏽 🔗 https://bible.com/reading-plans/72620/together/81083635/invitation?token=AVVzNZlPCDsk_e3PVuP5rg&source=share Let me know if you will be joining

Can I talk to the parent who has a list in their head that never makes it to real life? You want to lose weight. You haven't started. You want to meal prep. The groceries are still in store. You want to wake up earlier. The alarm gets snoozed. You want to read your Bible consistently. It's been two weeks. You want to exercise. You're exhausted by 8pm. And then Sunday night hits and you tell yourself..... okay. This week. For real this time. Sound familiar? You cannot pour from empty. And you cannot teach your children discipline, consistency, and follow through if you are not practicing it yourself. They are watching you. Not just how you parent them. But how you treat yourself. Whether you keep promises to yourself. Whether you have goals and actually pursue them. Whether your words and your actions match. The most powerful thing you can model for your child is a parent who decided to become the person they are trying to raise. So today we are not talking about your kids. We are talking about YOU. Step 1 — Pick ONE goal. Just one. Not five. Not a whole lifestyle overhaul. One thing you have been saying you want to do and have not done. Lose weight. Read your Bible daily. Drink more water. Exercise three times a week. Sleep earlier. Meal prep on Sundays. Whatever it is...... pick one. Step 2 — Define what success looks like in 30 days. Not a vague "I want to be better." Specific. "I will exercise 3 days a week for 30 days.""I will read my Bible every morning for 30 days.""I will meal prep every Sunday for 30 days." That is your goal. Write it down. Step 3 — Give yourself a consequence if you don't. I know we talk about consequences for our children. But what about for yourself? If you skip three days without a real reason what happens? No eating out that week? No Netflix until you catch up? No social media until you do the thing? Pick something that actually stings a little. Something that makes you pause before you quit. Step 4 — Set your 30 day reward. If you follow through what do you get?

Can I take you back to David for a second? Samuel anointed him king while he was still a shepherd boy. Oil on his head. Word of the Lord spoken over his life. The calling was real. The anointing was real. And then he went back to his sheep. Not to the palace. Not to the throne. Back to the field. Back to the same flock. Back to the same daily responsibility that nobody was watching and nobody was clapping for. And while he was out there, unseen, unrecognized, not yet promoted he kept practicing. He kept playing his harp.He kept protecting his sheep.He kept developing the skill, the courage, and the faith that would eventually be required of a king. So by the time Goliath showed up David didn't have to find his gift under pressure. He already knew what was in his hands. By the time he stepped into the palace he didn't have to figure out who he was. He already knew whose he was. The anointing came years before the assignment was activated. And that gap that in-between season was not wasted time. It was preparation time. Just because you are called does not mean it is your time. And just because it is not your time does not mean you stop preparing. Because here is what I know about the way God works He does not promote the unprepared. He does not hand a platform to someone who hasn't practiced in private. He does not give you the audience before He has tested what you will say when you get there. The calling is real. The anointing is real. But the preparation is mandatory. So what does that mean for you right now? It means the season you are in the quiet one, the unsexy one, the one where nobody is watching and nothing looks like it's happening that season is not your delay. That season IS your training. Perfect the skill.Perfect the obedience.Perfect the consistency. Show up every day like the assignment is already yours...... because in the spirit it already is. David didn't become king and then discover his gift. He discovered his gift in the field. He perfected it in the silence. He carried it into the palace when God said it was time.

Welcome to Kingdom University 🖤I’m so glad you’re here. This community is for Christian parents who are trying to break generational cycles, raise emotionally healthy children, and stop parenting from survival mode. A lot of us love our kids deeply, but we were never taught how to discipline without yelling, how to stay consistent, how to teach our children about God, or how to heal from what we went through while still showing up for them. Inside Kingdom University, we focus on 4 things: 1. Healing the parent 2. Disciplining without becoming who hurt us 3. Raising children who know God 4. Equipping teens for real life and real faith Start here: Introduce yourself in the community and tell us: How old are your children? What is your biggest parenting struggle right now? What are you believing God to change in your home? You are not a bad parent.But you are responsible for breaking the cycle. Welcome home.