@Kelly France hey Kelly, thanks for your response. I never got a chance to show my brother Dylan the blueprint, but he just checked into rehab today in Cobourg for crack addiction and alcoholism. Huge win!! Two questions - 1. how do you feel about post-rehab support provided by rehab centres, and more specifically should I get him on your blueprint or let him start with whatever structure they set him up with? 2. Is there room in your system or blueprint for a person to smoke weed once a month and to drink socially on special occasions? I already drink like a normal person but I have a huge weed addiction. Not just every day but before work and even during lunch breaks, and I have a fairly intense office job! And I want to fix that, but I'm not ready to let it go forever. I'm looking for help in creating a healthy relationship with weed, specifically getting high once per month - does this just sound like total BS to you? I've done the once per month thing before for a few stretches totalling maybe 6 months, and it always felt amazing living like that. Please tell me what you think.