-What I made this week: I made the decision to inform my band, The Hot Pursuit, that I do not wish to continue writing original music with them with the hopes of recording an album. Instead, I want us to remain a cover band (bars, weddings, corporate events) while I pursue original music as a solo artist. This was a heavy decision that the band seemed quite stunned by. But after working on the marketing side of music alongside V13 the past 7-8 months, I've realized that releasing music as a group, and all the little marketing tactics/decisions that are involved with that, would be MUCH harder when having to consider 3-4 other opinions from bandmates. More than that, I was really hurt personally when my band denied their permission to allow our Hot Pursuit debut EP from 2023 on the same profile as my soon-to-launch Garrett Barbuto Spotify/other DSPs profile. Of course, I can understand their emotions about having music they contributed to go from "Garrett Barbuto & The Hot Pursuit" to "Garrett Barbuto"; however, I feel that from a marketing perspective, it simply makes the most sense to have all the original music I've made on one profile. I was hoping after all the leadership I've undertaken in my band and the relationship we've cultivated that they would be able to put their emotions aside in favour of doing what's best for me. Cause I feel that whatever is best for me is best for them. Once I realized that their support was conditional on taking care of their needs ahead of my own, I had to take a step back from my expectations for the group as well as my role as the main growth driver in the band (i.e. Taking steps towards our next album). -What I'm stuck on: Did I overreact? Could I have just come up with a different solution to the Spotify/DSP profile issue that broke me? Of course, it's difficult to communicate every nuance that goes on with my band. But ultimately, with my first solo release on the horizon, I need people around me that support me without questioning my ethics or motives. Plus, all I'm really doing is telling the band that I no longer want to push the group to do anymore than it's currently doing which is about all they can handle anyway - as they've communicated. I still want to continue playing cover shows with these guys cause I love them; but all of this has caused me stress, lack of sleep and to be a worser partner to my girlfriend.