Changing Your World Starts Inside From Don Miguel Ruiz's Little Book of Wisdom "How do you change your world? The first step is to have the awareness that you create your own world, it's your responsibility. Nobody else is responsible for your creation. Now, in your creation, you have conflict. Most religions, philosophies, and histories say that this conflict is between good and evil - but that's not true. The conflict between good and evil is the result of the real conflict that exists in the human mind: the conflict between the truth and lies. You change your world by believing in truth and taking action based upon this truth." Don Miguel Ruiz asks a simple question: How do you change your world? His answer - start with the awareness that you are creating your own world, moment by moment. That this creation is your responsibility, not because you're to blame, but because it's yours. When we look to place blame for the state of our lives on external sources, we are unwittingly giving away our power to make changes. This idea can land very differently depending on the state of our nervous system. For some it will feel empowering, while others may find it heaving or shaming. That's where context matters. Ruiz challenges the idea that our inner conflict is between good and evil. Instead, he points to the conflict between truth and lies. From a nervous system perspective, many of the "lies" we live by were once necessary. They were beliefs shaped in moments when the body needed protection, predictability, or connection. A nervous system under threat seeks safety, not necessarily truth. Over time, the lies solidify into internal rules, identities, and stories. They organize how we perceive the world - and therefore, how our world looks. You can begin shifting your current reality when you recognize your old beliefs no longer match your current capacity or lived reality. - How does it feel to consider that the state of your life is your responsibility? - If you accept responsibility for your life, what are some small actions you can take to make the changes you want?

From Don Miguel Ruiz's Little Book of Wisdom: "Eventually we realize through our awareness that what we learned growing up - about the world, about life, about ourselves - it's not exactly true. This isn't good or bad, right or wrong; it's just the way it is. A time comes when the brain is mature enough that we start doubting, we start challenging our own beliefs. Only then can we start shifting what we believe, expanding the mind so that everything is possible." We start questioning our beliefs when we are intellectually ready, AND when the nervous system has enough safety and capacity to do so. Early beliefs are formed in survival contexts. They helped us make sense of the world when we were dependent, vulnerable, and wired for protection. At the time, those beliefs weren't distortions - they were adaptations. They organized the nervous system around what felt safest, most predictable, or most manageable. As life unfolds, things begin to change. We gain resources, experience support, and slowly, the nervous system no longer needs the same rigid explanations to stay regulated. This is when doubt arises. Questioning beliefs often means the body is no longer constrained by the same limits. The system can tolerate ambiguity, hold more than one perspective, and can allow uncertainty without falling apart. When old frameworks loosen, the nervous system is reorganizing - not just the mind. There can be grief, excitement, fear, or a sense of being unmoored. This is expansion beyond what wa once necessary. *Reflection* What might your nervous system be ready to question? Are there any old beliefs that you once held that now feel limiting?

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From Don Miguel Ruiz's Little Book of Wisdom - "The story of our lives is always changing, because we never see the world the same way from moment to moment. In my own case, when I was 10 years old, I saw the world in a completely different way than I did when I was twenty, or when I had my children, or when I had my car accident. The way you see the world is always changing - it is never the same. It's important to understand that the whole story of your life is just a story, and you are the one who created that story. With this understanding, you can ask yourself, "What do I want my story to look like going forward?" This can sound empowering - or unsettling - depending on where your nervous system is. Because while it is true that our story is something we create, it's also true that we don't rewrite it through willpower alone. Our story changes because WE change. And we change through both insight AND through experience in the body. After a journey, an awakening, or a period of deep healing, people can feel caught between two versions of themselves: who they were, and who they sense they're becoming. The mind wants to decide the new story quickly. The nervous system moves more slowly. Your perception of life shifts as your nervous system gains capacity, safety, and choice. What used to feel inevitable begins to feel optional. *Story Follows State* At different moments in life, you had different nervous systems, different levels of safety and capacity, and different resources. Your story in the past was accurate to the state you were in at the time. In integration, we learn to let our current capacity inform how we understand the past - and how we move forward. *Reflection* Think about a past event/story. How has it changed over the years, as you have changed?

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