Why being sensitive is not a flaw in care work
In caregiving, sensitivity is often framed as a weakness. Weāre told to be āthick skinned,ā ādetached,ā or āresilient enoughā to handle anything. But Iāve learned in 13 years as a PSW, and now as a nursing student, that sensitivity is actually a strength. It allows you to notice subtle changes in a patient, respond with empathy, and anticipate needs before they become crises. It makes your care more thoughtful, ethical, and humane. The challenge isnāt sensitivity itself, itās learning how to regulate it so it doesnāt lead to burnout. Sensitivity without self-care can overwhelm us, but sensitivity with boundaries, nervous-system awareness, and practical strategies is what makes us truly effective caregivers. Iād love to hear from you: How has your sensitivity helped you in your caregiving work?