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Over 40 and Unemployed

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Welcome to everyone who just joined.
If you're here, you're probably over 40 and fighting the same fight I am. Sending out resumes that disappear into the void. Getting ghosted by recruiters. Watching younger people get hired for jobs you're overqualified for. Wondering if you're unemployable or if the entire system just broke while you weren't looking. You're not imagining it. The job market is brutal right now. Especially for us. I'm 57. I've been freelancing for over 20 years. I have a degree. I use AI tools every day. I'm faster and better at my work than I've ever been. And I still can't get hired. Not because I'm not good enough. Because companies don't want to invest in people like us anymore. We're too expensive. Too experienced. Too likely to know our worth and not accept garbage wages. This group exists because we're all dealing with the same thing. And most of us are doing it alone. Scrolling LinkedIn at 2am wondering what we're doing wrong. Applying to jobs we're overqualified for and still not getting callbacks. Trying to figure out how to rebuild a career in a market that decided we're disposable. You're not alone. That's why we're here. Drop a comment and introduce yourself. Where are you? What kind of work are you looking for? What's your biggest struggle right now? Let's actually talk about this. Let's help each other. Let's stop pretending this is normal and start figuring out how to survive it together. Welcome. I'm glad you're here.
Welcome to everyone who just joined.
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Hi, thanks for letting me join your platform! I'm Eric, I'm 51, and I live in Central New Jersey, about 10 miles east of Princeton. I had a ~20 year career as a graphic designer. I missed the fork in the road where a lot of folks went into User Experience Design (UX/UXD) and tried to get back there, but it was already too late by 2016. At the end of my design career, I got stuck in a few bad environments and it completely turned me off to the world of professional design. I got into software sales for a while. I purchased a residential painting franchise and got slaughtered financially. I toyed around with selling life insurance through a multi-level-marketing platform (the dreaded MLMs) and it never quite resonated with me. It was like being in a weird cult. What interests me most these days is the revenue operations space (from marketing through customer experience) and also brand positioning. So I'm doing a little of both, but focused on a lot of other things as well. I have a fine art painting website that I've recently launched where one can purchase the actual paintings, but also prints of the paintings. If anyone is curious, those are here: https://emehlenbeck.artspan.com/
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@Jason Weiland frankly, the thing all small business owners seem to always need more of: clients!
Still Waiting for Someone to Hire You? Maybe It's Time to Stop Waiting.
I see a lot of you in here grinding through job applications. Tailoring resumes. Writing cover letters. Following up on interviews that go nowhere. And I get it. I've been there. Hell, I'm still there sometimes. But here's what I've been thinking about lately. What if we're asking the wrong question? We keep asking "How do I get hired?" when maybe we should be asking "How do I stop needing to get hired?" Nobody wants to hire people over 40. We all know this. The algorithms filter us out. The hiring managers see our experience as "overqualified." The salary expectations don't match their budgets. We can keep banging our heads against that wall. Or we can build our own door. I'm not talking about some massive startup with investors and employees. I'm talking about something that's yours. Freelancing. Consulting. Coaching. A service business. A digital product. Something you control. Because here's what I've learned after months of building my own thing while freelancing on the side: The traditional path is broken. But there are other paths. The data actually supports this. People are starting businesses in record numbers right now. Over 5 million new business applications in 2024. That's 50% more than in 2019. And here's the kicker: 64% of entrepreneurs in the US are over 40. We're not too old for this. We're actually in the sweet spot.Most entrepreneurs don't even launch their businesses until they're 42. But I'm not going to lie to you. It's scary as hell. I've failed at business before. Multiple times. And starting again at 57, broke, with decades of failure behind me? That takes everything I've got. But I've never been this far along. I've never had this much momentum. I've never felt this certain that I'm onto something. Here's what's different this time. I'm not choosing between a job and a business. I'm doing both. I'm taking freelance work to keep money coming in. And I'm building my own platforms, my own products, my own audience at the same time.
Still Waiting for Someone to Hire You? Maybe It's Time to Stop Waiting.
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Great piece! There is a whole lot of truth here. But one thing that I've struggled with, and I'm sure many others do as well, is the self-promotion aspect. Getting out to networking meetings, doing online speed networking, etc. etc. can be a grueling experience filled with a lot of rejection. It is one thing to say "Get out there and just do it!" But for those that are introverted or similarly aligned, this can be a massive challenge. A hill that some might not be able to climb. What might be interesting is to start an agency that especially focuses on pairing those that love going out and "hustling" businesses with those who would rather hide behind the scenes (and/or their screens), pumping out awesomeness without the mental/emotional drag that business building can create.
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@Jason Weiland I've learned to coerce myself into some semblance of "extroversion." I've had people say that I am a great networker. What drives me is both connecting people who could be good partners but also hearing people's stories and experiences. But then I go home and crash till I'm recovered.
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Eric Mehlenbeck
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One half artist | one half scientist | all human. I'm a revops Swiss army knife. I supremely value empathy, kindness, and equality.

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