The “what’s in it for me” mindset had me more focused on what I could get rather than what I could give. For example, I stopped going to men’s groups because I carried the mentality of, “I’m good—I don’t need anything.” Repentance looked like showing up with a servant’s heart instead. I began attending the group with the mindset of, What can I contribute or share that might help a brother today? I realized I wasn’t there just to receive a word but to share one—and that shift was deeply fulfilling, because you never know how something you say might encourage someone else. God doesn’t always directly answer prayers, but He may send someone to be the answer. By focusing on adding value to the group, I left each meeting feeling energized and grateful for the gift of community.