“You cannot hate your way into healing. You can only love your way there.”
Hi Everyone 👋 Ummm....🤔 You know what's funny? We talk a lot about loving-kindness toward others, but here's the part nobody admits.... Sometimes I don't want to be kind to myself. Sometimes the voice in my head says "you should be doing better" and part of me agrees with it. Like being hard on myself is the only thing keeping me from falling apart. And when someone says "just be compassionate with yourself"....honestly? That makes me want to roll my eyes and make me want to say (...k o..) Because it sounds nice, but it doesn't feel true to how I actually operate and live my life. So here's what I'm wondering today… What if loving kindness isn't about being soft and sweet? What if it's actually fierce? What if real compassion looks like... "I see you messing up again, and I'm not leaving. Deal with it." Not indulgent. Not fake-positive....... Just… staying 😊 Because the people I've actually learned from, the ones whose presence changed me, they didn't give me easy answers. They didn't walk away when I was being ...just.. ,me! So here's my messy question for you... Is there anyone in your life, including yourself, that you've stayed with, even when they weren't being lovable? Not because you had to. Because you chose to. I'd love to hear about that. The real version...... Not the Instagram version 🤣 With Love ❤️ Always Mark