Elan Solomon

Not everyone should have access to your time, your energy, your emotions, or your peace. The moment you hand your identity and direction over to other people’s opinions, expectations, or demands… you slowly lose control of your own destiny. Boundaries are not selfish.They are wisdom. Because when you keep trying to please everyone, carry everyone, and rescue everyone… burnout eventually comes knocking. Protect your peace.Lead your life with intention.And remember — not every door deserves your yes. “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23

New comment 12h ago

Elan Solomon

1 like • 18h

100% Charmaine - we must be aware of the opportunity cost. Saying yes to something necessarily means we've said no to another, and we should be aware of exactly which trades and exchanges we are making, and if they aren't aligned with our goals it's our responsibility to review them.

Bukeka Guda

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I AM

Finding My Lost Self in I AM

I am glad to be part of I AM, for me to find myself again.

New comment 1d ago

Elan Solomon

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It’s great to see you here Bukeka - I’m confident you’re going to find yourself and more here! 💪

Dale Hoff

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I AM - IDENTITY

Impact Building Proof for I AM identity shift.

My bottom 3 areas: Career, Finances, Family and Friends. My number one focus are. Is my career. What stood out most: The interdependence of the identity model is an ecosystem. One can acknowledge the interdependence, participate in it and negotiate yourself(Myself) through it. This is empowerment to acknowledge it to be aware of it and employ it as much as it seeks to employ you (Me). I AM restoration. Today I proved it by making a decision relating to my welfare. I chose to respect myself by reiterating my standards and exerting self respect during a potentially destabilizing interaction. 😊

New comment 9h ago

Elan Solomon

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Great strides, Dale. It takes quite a lot to set boundaries and to raise the bar of self-respect one demands for oneself. As you stack these pieces of evidence you will no doubt see the improvement in the areas you've identified 💪

Monica Roos

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I AM

I am worthy of success and happiness

Many things can keep us from believing we are worthy of success and happiness, even when we truly are. Often, it starts with self-doubt, fear, past hurt, or the belief that we are “not enough.”

New comment 2d ago

Elan Solomon

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Great message to put out there Monica - often the first person we have to convince we can reach the greatness we're capable of is ourselves. Your post is valuable reminder to claim, out loud, that we are worthy of what we're pursuing.