Hey everyone, I'm Curtis Ray from MO, USA. I am 10 years sober from a past life of crime, addiction and alcoholism, really bad. God delivered me. This group intrigued me because of my faith. The Word of God says that HE IS "I AM" ... and I am becoming the man of God ... I've always wanted to be!!

Welcome to my accountability pod. I AM Coach Elan This post will be our group check-in space for the 3-Day Identity Challenge. Please comment below with: 1. Your goal right now 2. What you need to stop doing to become the next version of yourself Use this post for your updates, questions, wins, and progress check-ins. This helps me keep everything organised and makes it easier for me to track, support, and prioritise everyone inside this pod. Let’s show up and do the work! Comment below 👇🦾

You Don't Have Problems. You Have Stories. I heard something recently that really made me stop and think: "You don't have problems. You have stories." The quality of your life is often determined by the quality of the conversations you have with yourself. Think about some of the stories people carry: "I'm not good enough." "I'm not worthy." "Nobody loves me." "I'm not smart enough." "I'm always going to struggle." The interesting thing is that these stories are rarely facts. They're interpretations. Yet because we believe them, we start looking for evidence to prove them right. We notice every failure. We magnify every setback. We dismiss every success. Over time, the story becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. We call it self-sabotage. But perhaps it's simply a person acting in alignment with the identity they have accepted as true. You cannot consistently produce results that are out of alignment with your wiring. You will always gravitate back to who you believe you are. This is why lasting change is not about trying harder. It's about becoming different. Whether the challenge is your health, your finances, your relationships, your confidence, or your happiness, the question is not: "How do I get rid of this problem?" The question is: "Who do I need to become so that this is no longer a problem in my life?" That shift changes everything. Because it moves you from being a victim of your circumstances to becoming the creator of your future. Instead of saying: "This is just the way I am." You begin asking: "What if I've simply been living inside an old story?" We are creative beings. We have the ability to rewrite the stories we tell ourselves. To change our identity. To create different actions. To produce different results. And perhaps that is where real transformation begins. 👇 I'd love to hear from you: What is one story about yourself that you've been believing for far too long? And what is the new story you are choosing to live instead?

Stop waiting for the perfect moment to become the person you're meant to be. Growth happens when you show up tired, uncertain and still willing to try again. Stay consistent. Your future self is watching.

The wise observer continue... Intention Is Not the Same as Impact You may have a good intention. But your impact may still create distance. That is one of the hardest truths in leadership, relationships and coaching. You may intend to help. But the other person may feel judged. You may intend to be direct. But the other person may experience threat. You may intend to protect yourself. But the other person may feel shut out. The Wise Observer helps you hold both at the same time: “What did I mean?” And “How did it land?” That small pause can change the entire direction of a conversation. Conversations, trust and the brain.