Is it our Next Home, or the Forever Home... (Our Property journey)
When we bought our last place, I already knew it wasn’t our “forever home.” The dream was always something bigger—more land, more rural. That house was a stepping stone (even if it didn’t feel like it most of the time, and especially when we felt stuck financially and that it was a stone around our necks... but that's a story for another time), and the *incredible* growth in the market gave us what we needed to take the leap into the Family Farm we’ve now bought. It hasn’t been a smooth road (hello, interest rates climbing at the worst possible time 🙃), and other people’s opinions were tough to tune out. But we held our vision even when it felt wobbly—not knowing exactly how it would happen, only that it was calling to us no matter how much it wasn't *ever* the right time. Eventually the right place showed up. In a whole different state and in a whole different visual than the grand dream. Now we’re literally starting over again—fresh land, a ramshackle little shack. We’ve gone from an “ideal” (*beautiful* white box 😅) 285m² home down to a teeny 72m²… but now with space to grow, build, and dream our family’s future. We also set up a family trust to do the right thing by our girls and protect their future (that part was way easier than I thought to setup, but waaaay more work with the banks than I expected, BUT if it’s too hard for most people, there’s probably a reason the wealthy push through and get it done). I love groups like this. It feels good to be around people who understand those secret dreams and big scary and exciting goals you can’t always share with everyone else. And we’re grateful to Eamonn—he’s been part of our journey twice now, and he's even helped a close friend with her journey. Having that kind of support really makes a difference. If there’s one thing I’ve learned through all this, it’s that the uncomfortable, hard choices are usually the ones that build the wealth and life you actually dream about. And what looks like 'done' to some, is only the beginning for others.