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Most people think social confidence is something you either have or you don’t. The truth? It’s a skill — and you can build it faster than you think. In this 3-hour live workshop, I’ll walk you through how to go from socially hesitant to socially confident — step by step. I used to have chronic social anxiety and depended on other people lead. Nowadays, I could start from zero in a new city without knowing anyone and have a robust social circle and dating life up and running within a few weeks. All without being fake or trying hard. This is something anyone can learn to do. So I'll show you how. This session is completely free for all Brojo Brotherhood (VIP) members. If you’re not in yet, joining the Brotherhood will give you access, including the full recording after. ------------------------------------------------------------------- 💬 What You’ll Learn 1️⃣ Build Your Social Circle (from zero) Learn the exact process to go from knowing no one to having a circle of genuine friends and romantic opportunities. ✅ Where to find good-fit people so you give yourself the best odds at connecting comfortably without high risk of rejection ✅ How to naturally turn strangers into friends without it feeling awkward or forced ✅ How to create a social life that fits your personality rather than trying to "fit in" No more waiting to be included — learn how to create and lead your own tribe. ------------------------------------------------------------------- 2️⃣ Master the Core Social Skills Develop communication skills that make connecting effortless. ✅ Body language and voice techniques that show confidence and make people respect and listen to you ✅ How to initiate and lead deeper conversations so that you give yourself the best chances ✅ Expressing attraction and interest honestly to effortlessly escalate both romantic and platonic relationships Become that calm, grounded person everyone feels comfortable around... or at least respects. -------------------------------------------------------------------

We're into the final week now, and it's time to turn the heat up to 11. Today's challenge is to initiate a conversation with a complete stranger (e.g. someone walking down the street, sat next to you at a cafe or on the bus etc.) using a genuine compliment. AND here's the catch - you must stay in the conversation until THEY end it! You cannot excuse yourself or leave until they make it crystal clear they want you to go or they leave themselves. Even if you blank out and can't think of anything to say, you must stay there with them and maintain a connection. Starting the conversation means clearly stopping them, getting their attention, and at least saying an opening statement, e.g. "Excuse me, hi, I just noticed you walking past and wanted to say I like your sense of style". This video from the Building Rapport course will walk you through how to do this https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/classroom/85ce3f87?md=db8a6006170345b7984ec3d97e4c7b59 Obviously, don't corner someone. Make sure they have the ability to leave at any time. And leave them alone when they give you a clear signal that it's over: - they hurry away from you or say "Don't talk to me" - a clear rejection - they tell you they need to leave or be somewhere else - they say something like "well nice meeting you but..." Them frowning, looking around, or not saying anything does NOT count as them ending the conversation. For those of you not comfortable with this, I suggest you pick a person who can easily get away, like someone walking. If you sit next to someone (e.g. at a cafe) you need good social intuition to know when they want to end it. We're not out to make other people uncomfortable here, but you will need to risk it. This is worth 45 points. Describe the situation in full detail in the comments to collect your points, or even film yourself discretely (don't film them without permission) and share the video.

Well done to everyone who's survived so far! In today's call we covered - facing social anxiety fears - letting go of outcomes - leaderboard update - next challenge --- TRANSCRIPT Alrighty, we're wrapping up the end of week two, two and a half, of our 30-day social confidence building challenge. We've progressed, all of you have pitched in so far, you've done some pretty uncomfortable things, I know, I've come through all these things myself, I wouldn't ask you to do anything I haven't done myself. And some of you have really embraced it, and you've done some things that scare you. We're all scared by different things, we have different levels of tolerance for social anxiety, so some of the things might look small to others and be big to you and vice versa, and that's okay, it's all just subjective, yeah. So as long as you're trying to make yourself do things that are uncomfortable, that build yourself socially, then you're on track, no matter how that compares to anybody else. So while I do have the point system going, that's just a marker of people putting the effort in, okay, you don't, you aren't actually in competition with anybody, that's just for fun. So, a couple of reminders, just from what I've seen coming up, first and foremost, you know, there's only so much I can give you guys in a 30-day challenge. Each of these exercises, well, I've sort of said, just go do this once. These are all exercises that if you were to repeat them frequently over time, you would develop an amazing social circle, okay, these are the formula, this is what you need to do. Now, some of these things will be more relevant to you than others, depending on your current social situation, your social courage, how you like to meet people and so on. And everything in this challenge, if you were to do it every week, one of these things, or, you know, they're fewer than you do them a lot, your social life will transform, okay. 30 days, it's just about sort of laying the foundations, learning the skills