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Crossroads
In the comments/discussion area share which of these types of crossroads most resonate with you and why.
Crossroads
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I am a professor, which I have often joked is something I had to do because I “behave” like a professor anyway. I am also among the rare near-retirees who has spent almost an entire career at one place. I will have been at my university for 34 years when I retire. I really resonate with the identity crossroad. Even though I have other interests, I have spent most of my adult life with a very particular focus, and when I no longer have that focus, I wonder what will fill the hole. I worry that no matter what it is, it will feel like a consolation prize.
Why do we lose interest in exercising?
My father passed away in 2023 at the age of 88. Until he was 78 he played tennis two or three times a week and relied on that to keep his strength. It didn't work, which is why his tennis buddies told him he was too slow to continue playing. Instead of responding to that situation by diving into a more rigorous exercise routine, he became sedentary. When he turned 80 he realized that he had lost a lot of strength and said that he knew he needed to exercise, but just couldn't bring himself to do so. This morning, I spoke with a woman who turns 81 in March. She complained that she was losing weight and strength. Naturally, I checked to make certain she has seen her doctor to get checked out. She said she had and that she had been given a clean bill of health and a lecture about muscle loss as we age (sarcopenia). I suggested that she might consider joining a silver sneakers group and working out, or finding a yoga group to join. She let me know that she has no intention of doing so. This makes me wonder. Aside from people who lose the ability to exercise because of an accident or health condition, why do people stop exercising? What are your thoughts? And, what can be done to motivate someone to get back into some kind of exercise routine?
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I broke my ankle and it never really stopped hurting. Then I had shoulder surgery, and my shoulder never really stopped hurting. I am still exercising, but not as much, or with the same intensity, because stuff hurts.
Intro
My name is Duff, I live i. the metro St. Louis area, and I retire in 534 days - but who’s counting? In my latter years, what I want more control over how I spend my time, and what I'm tired of is watching politics slowly erode things I’ve devoted my life to and care deeply about.
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A good question, but it begs a prior one, which is how much energy am I will to expend to try to "save" something I'm about to leave? I am not sure whether getting involved in finding solutions when I'm only a little over a year from being done is worth the effort. I feel a little guilty saying so - sounds like short-timer's syndrome or Seniorities, right? But there it is.
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What is most relevant here is that Duff and Art became friends when they were 7, and they are still friends to this day. That says a lot!

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