Today I take action on building the life I want.

Hi guys, my name is Des. I've been teaching and doing workshops with adults in health and social care for thirty years in the UK. Coaching has always been a passion, but it's not actually how I earn money. A long time ago I used to do some crazy stuff windsurfing! I live in West Wales and I'm looking forward to going through the programme!

Your reaction will be your answer if you are captured or free. I post many times about the paradigm and subconscious mind, while others speak body memory and cognitive things. They miss the point of what I explained, those that is in agreement with me will see if they are captured or free also. Turn off your sound, don't read the text, just observe. After you observe it, replay it with the sound on and read the text.

There's a lot of neuroscience and brain wiring in the way these things work, but to keep this simple - example, in terms of things like failure, a toddler will fall over 110 times while walking the full length of 10 football fields in one day. Yet the toddler will never turn right and say, - "Oh, I'm not very good at that! - I'm failing! - I'm not going to try again." The toddler just gets up and tries again. One of my mantras would be - There is no failure, only feedback. - Feedback leads to knowledge. - Knowledge leads to confidence. - Confidence leads to competence. All of our learning is through feedback (failure). In behavioural terms, it's just a simple contingency that most people don't understand.

The how and when will you discover you? I'm serious about it!