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I’m back in colorful Colorado! The conference was amazing! My greatest takeaway… successful leaders have so much great advice, following a leader can be overwhelming if you don’t know what advice to start with! Let me make this Sundays advice simple and short! Just like the phenomenon that occurs when we buy a new car and then notice it in every color everywhere we go as if everyone else bought the car because we did, in marriage - the traits we focus on in our husbands are the traits we’ll notice more of! Choose your focus wisely. It will determine your peace, happiness and joy!

In quantum physics, the “observer effect” refers to the phenomenon where the act of observing a quantum system inevitably alters its behavior, meaning that simply measuring or trying to observe a particle can change its state, making it impossible to know its exact properties without influencing it in the process; this is a key concept in quantum mechanics and is often illustrated by the double-slit experiment. Similarly, in relationships—particularly in marriage—our mere act of observing, interpreting, or reacting to our partner’s behavior can alter the dynamics of the relationship itself. Just as quantum particles exist in a range of possibilities until measured, our perceptions and expectations shape the reality of our interactions. When we assume fixed traits in our spouse, we inadvertently collapse their potential into a single, limiting narrative. However, if we approach them with curiosity, openness, and an awareness of the fluidity of human nature, we allow for a greater range of possibilities in our connection. Understanding this principle from quantum physics can transform a marriage: instead of reacting to a “fixed” version of our partner, we learn to appreciate the evolving, ever-changing nature of their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors. By changing how we observe—choosing empathy over judgment, curiosity over certainty—we influence the relationship in a way that fosters growth, deeper understanding, and stronger emotional bonds. Just as in quantum mechanics, where observation shapes reality, the way we perceive and engage with our partner fundamentally shapes the reality of our marriage. So start incorporating the observer effect in your marriage today—use a video camera or even just an audio recorder to capture your interactions. Watch and listen back to see how your own presence, words, and reactions shape the dynamic. You’ll be surprised at how much awareness alone can change everything. Remember—marriage is an art… be creative! It’s a game a have fun! 🎨🎮

Hey Wifey! Happy Sunday! You’ll only get as far as the last good instruction you ignored! I’m preparing this Sunday to travel to an incredible high energy conference and be in the room with titans of self improvement, billionaires, millionaires and people on the path of creating the best life they can possibly experience! And I get to be with them, learning from them and soaking up their advice for a whole week! You best believe I’m taking notes & journaling my heart out!!! Searching my heart for a Sunday Kind of Love post… I have found that this is what I want to share with you today! A couple of months ago, I gave advice to those struggling with intimacy in their marriage. I suggested starting a S.E.X. journal—not just to track each time you and your husband make it happen, but also as a space to vent frustrations and write about your goals for feeling more in tune with him. How many of you actually followed that advice? It’s easy to read or hear guidance that resonates but then never act on it. You tell yourself you’ll get around to it “later” or think it’s not important enough. But here’s the truth: every instruction you ignore becomes a block in your progress. It’s like stepping off the path you were meant to walk and wondering why you feel lost. Why did I turn sex into the acronym S.E.X.? You’ll have to read my book to learn what each letter represents! Marriage, especially intimacy, thrives on awareness and intentionality. A journal helps you reconnect to your body, your emotions, and your partner. It allows you to reflect on patterns, see small victories, and identify areas for growth. It keeps you honest with yourself—something that’s essential in any partnership. If you haven’t started yet, it’s not too late. Pick up that journal and get writing. The moments you invest in yourself are the moments that bring you closer to the connection you crave. What’s one piece of good advice you’re finally ready to act on today? Start now—your marriage deserves it; your sanity depends on it! If you haven’t already… follow the advice on reading the book “Growing Into a Mature Marriage: from Kindergarten to College” by Delyce Collins and see what other good advice you may be missing out on! You can order your copy at delycecollins.com