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The Performer's Circle

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4 contributions to The Performer's Circle
Why do you want to share your music?
Residents want to experience your show,not just passively listen to the music. When we invest time with them, it's crucial to make a connection and share the reason we love music and why we are so happy to share it. "My grandfather taught me how to play guitar. He also smoked cigarettes while he sang the songs. I don't smoke, but every time I smell cigarettes I think of him and the music he shared that made my brothers and I feel so good" Some little stories like this resonate with them. "My grandma danced and she couldn't dance. Grandpa sang and he couldn't sing. They stayed married 60 years." Open up to your senior audience and make them 'feel' what you feel. Let your stories lead into songs and bring them on an emotional journey with you. This makes a lasting impression that will get them asking for you back more often. Why are you so excited about sharing music with senior communities??
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Two years ago, I moved from North Dakota to southern IL and was musically lonely after leaving the music community in ND that had been my support group for 11 years. My original intention was to gig at the wineries, share my music and make new friends. But God had a different plan for me. Instead, doors began to open for me at senior communities. Now, it is the most rewarding thing I've ever done to share my music with the seniors. They are more appreciative, the gigs are only one hour, and the pay is more than what I would make performing in the bars and wineries. Plus, it is a much nicer atmosphere. I'm so glad God had a different path for me to follow!
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thank you, Miriam, for sharing that scripture!
Guitar Type Choice
Hi all. I am lucky enough to have a few guitars to choose from for performing. Unfortunately that sometimes makes me have a hard time deciding which one will work best for playing at senior facilities. I have a nice old maple 1980 Guild F-50 jumbo which sounds great, but it has passive pad type piezo pickups with no volume control in the guitar. So, I have to adjust things on the amp. These guitars are full sounding and very bright. My other guitar choice is a nylon string Yamaha NTX3 crossover guitar which does have a built-in preamp and controls in the guitar. This guitar is very mellow. Any opinions on which guitar might be better for performing at senior facilities? The nice thing about the Guild F-50 is that it is loud, so if I were performing un-amplified this is the one I would take.
Guitar Type Choice
1 like • 30d
My Gibson Special L-00 is my new "workhorse" for the senior communities AND all other venues. It is a cannon when I want to be loud, but also good for quiet fingerpicking.
What songs are you rehearsing right now that you are loving?
I'm playing Jim Croce's 'Photographs & Memories' , Johnny Cash's version of 'I've been Everywhere', and George Harrison's 'While my Guitar Gently Weeps'. I intend to try all 3 before the end of this week's show line up and will share my progress with The Performer's Circle! What songs are you working on?
2 likes • 30d
Currently rehearsing "You've Got a Friend" by James Taylor/Carole King. I would also like to add "Let Me Be There" by Olivia Newton-John, but I don't have anyone to sing the bass parts. Have you ever taken an extra mic and invited the residents to sing along? I have a few regular communities where there are residents who want to sing with me.
How do you prepare your setlist at shows?
I'm curious what everyone uses when referencing a setlist during shows? I go completely from memory and don't rely on anything and I'm wondering if anyone else does this?
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1 like • 30d
I don't use a set list or technology. I have a main song book for guitar and one for ukulele. I also have 3 other guitar song books of different genres: Folk, Country & Pop. I rotate songs in and out of the main guitar book from the other books to keep it fresh and add new songs monthly. Like you, Chris, I am constantly reading the audience and skip songs or jump around, depending on the "vibe" in the room and the time remaining in the set. I have also taken your advice from one of your "shorts" and don't push a song if it's not connecting with the audience. I might do just a verse and the chorus and then move on. But if the song IS connecting with the audience, I play it through and repeat the chorus as many times as feels right. It is liberating and allows for a more spontaneous flow.
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Dee James
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Dee James is a lover of music, guitar & ukulele. She was inducted into the North Dakota Music Hall of Fame in 2024. She resides in southern IL.

Active 17d ago
Joined Jun 15, 2026