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You Can Carry a Keffiyeh and a Boarding Pass
I don’t separate how I live my life from what I stand for. Travel, everyday moments, political awareness, it all exists together. I wrote about that here: https://darlenechangemakerhq.substack.com/p/you-can-carry-a-keffiyeh-and-a-boarding?r=5pn6i2
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When you remember how big the world is, you stop feeling like you personally have to carry it all. - This line really hits different for me because when I think about all the burdens and baggage I am carrying in life, it reminds me that I can still live life while still caring about what truly matters. We can enjoy life and travel but at the same time care and do something about the happenings around us.
What Burnout Costs Movements When Women Are Pushed Too Far
Since it’s International Women’s Day, I wanted to share another piece from my Substack that connects to what we’ve been talking about here this week. We’ve already talked about how burnout isn’t personal and how some communities drain women instead of supporting them. This article looks at another piece of the puzzle: what burnout actually costs all of us when politically aware women are pushed past their limits. When women who care deeply about justice burn out, movements lose experience, insight, leadership, and momentum. Burnout is not just personal. It is political. Here’s the article: https://darlenechangemakerhq.substack.com/p/what-burnout-costs-us-collectively
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In my country, us women who show deep concern about what's happening in our political system mostly get taken for granted. We express concern and urgency but people assume we won’t create change simply because we are women. And that is really frustrating but at the same time empowering because being a woman is something I can be proud of, no matter what they think of us with their gender roles and expectations.
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1 like • Mar 13
Hi everyone! My name is Debbrah (she/her) and I am your new admin here in the community. I live in Cebu, Philippines and I have been working as a freelancer for a year now.I have lived in the Philippines my entire 24 years of my existence and I want to move and live in a different place someday but who knows, I still got a lot of time in this world to explore and make a difference. I like to watch Netflix series during my free time and in the weekends I just walk around our town and get some coffee, or catch some fresh air by the beach. I love random adventures and being spontaneous. I am glad to be here! p.s Here’s a picture of my setup
1 like • Mar 15
@Darlene Meissner Thank you!! I feel the same and I am also excited about it.
Your exhaustion is not personal
Many women who care about justice, community, and social change eventually start asking themselves: “Why am I so exhausted?” The answer is rarely individual failure or poor time management. It is structural. Systems shaped by colonialism, patriarchy, capitalism, and other forms of inequality depend heavily on women carrying invisible labour, emotional responsibility, and moral pressure. Holding communities together.Keeping organizations functioning.Absorbing conflict.Doing the work that often goes unseen. Over time, that accumulation produces burnout. Not because women are weak. Because the systems themselves are unsustainable. I wrote more about this here: Your Exhaustion Is Not Personal: It’s Structural https://open.substack.com/pub/darlenechangemakerhq/p/your-exhaustion-is-not-personal-its If you read it, I would be interested in your thoughts.
1 like • Mar 13
Emotional labor is more exhausting than we think it is and in this world, women have to always do the heavy lifting without getting proper recognition and benefits and that's because the system expects us to do it. We are tired not because we are weak indeed, but because we have been doing more than a lot ever since.
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