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Horsemanship question
How important is horsemanship to the modern-day gentleman? Hundred years ago I'd say it was a very important subject to be learned, but now days I'd say a majority of men have little to no idea how to ride a horse. I use a horse for my job, so horsemanship is important skill for me. For a banker man though, I'd say basic vehicle maintenance is the modern day equivalent. What are y'all thoughts?
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Horsemanship question
4 likes • 20d
I would say that may be a US-centric thing. In Europe, riding has been niche for centuries - mainly reserved for cavalry and hunting. My great grandparents had a horse for wagons, sleds and logs - not for riding about. Today? Even less than it ever was.
Drawing The Line part 1
#DRAWINGTHELINE Should a DISTINGUISHED GENTLEMAN wear earrings, as part of his wardrobe, if his ears are still pierced? At what point, in YOUR OPINION , do you draw the line when accessorising your particular wardrobe? Do you agree or disagree? What are YOUR THOUGHTS?
6 likes • Aug 16
This is Peter Siepen, together with his wife. He is 63 years old. He has a very unique and genuine style. He is very flamboyant and a true extrovert. I think the style suits him perfectly. He can pull off pieces of clothing and accessories I never would. "feminine" earrings being one. As long as your wear it naturally and it fits your style I see no problem. In classic mens tailoring and the style of dress I prefer - I would not wear earrings. The accessories I do wear are timepieces, a wedding band and sometimes but rarely bracelets. I have considered a discreet pendant in white gold with a matching chain but have yet to make a final decision.
Sprezzatura
Sprezzatura. 🇮🇹🇬🇧 My interpretation of Italian ease with English elegance, Ralph Lauren trousers, Salvatore Ferragamo blue suede loafers, a Brooks Brothers linen shirt and cotton cable knit sweater. Classic pieces, slightly undone. Elegance without looking too considered or at least, that’s the idea. 😉
Sprezzatura
13 likes • Aug 15
Looks great!
Help to settle a “Discussion”
So gents, Ive been having a “discussion” with my wife about Chelsea boots. I have these two pairs currently; the polished dark tan ones are my dressier boots for evenings, dinners and some more formal occasions, often paired with navy or beige chinos and appropriately coloured button down. The darker brown pair in the muted matte finish are my more casual daytime boots for things like casual lunches, or even maybe a weekend shopping trip etc, and I’ll often wear them with indigo jeans or my more rugged olive chinos (my fave combo), a long sleeve Henley, or t-shirt and overshirt, and I absolutely love wearing them. Here’s the thing though; my wife reckons that because they’re boots, both pairs are automatically formal wear, and should only be worn for formal occasions, and consequently I almost feel shamed out of wearing the darker ones for any kind of casual situation. I’d love to hear your thoughts to help clarify the situation in my own mind if nothing else. I have also got a pair of sand coloured desert boots on order for spring/summer casual wear, and I’ll be getting a pair of Thursday boots Captains soon too, for a more rugged look (can you tell I’m starting to really get into boots 😉). Oh, and for context, as I’m in Australia, I’m currently living through the cold Victorian winter.
Help to settle a “Discussion”
2 likes • Aug 8
We must live in different universes, or maybe cultural zones, me and your wife. I do love chelseas myself and wear them often. However, I would never wear them with formal wear. I find it difficult even to wear them with a blazer and odd trousers. Of course, calf is dressier than suede or the likes, but loafers or oxfords are formal footwear (and a few others). To me, Chelsea boots are like elegant cowboy boots for smart casual outfits. Especially in suede, but calf can be as well. Typical Chelsea outfit for me would be jeans, button down shirt and suede jacket or corduroy trousers, shirt and a cardigan. Your brown calf boots, I would definitely wear with business casual, but not business formal or above.
2 likes • Aug 15
@Nicholas Bailey I was very recently actually contemplating getting a pair of black calf chelseas and I can definitely see myself wearing them with my mid-grey suit.
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