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7 contributions to Lessons in Self Publishing
Why Guessing Alone Is Costing You Readers
You finish the book. You hit publish. You wait for readers to show up... and mostly, it's quiet. Sound familiar? That's not a talent problem, it's a guidance problem. Most authors are never taught how visibility actually works, so they guess, try a bit of everything, and burn out before anything gains traction. The authors who break that cycle are almost always the ones who had someone walk them through it, pointing out what to focus on and what to skip, instead of figuring it out alone through trial and error. That is exactly the gap I work on closing, helping authors build real visibility and positioning through mentorship, not generic tips, but guidance shaped by patterns I see play out again and again. If "hit publish, then silence" sounds familiar, drop a 🙋 below, curious how many of you have been there.
4 likes • Oct 2
🙋 This was exactly me for a long time. Eight books out and still mostly quiet, I honestly thought something was wrong with the writing itself. Working with Adam has completely changed that. He helped me understand what actually matters for visibility instead of guessing and trying everything at once. The guidance has been clear, practical, and genuinely made a difference in how I approach each release now. If you're stuck in that "publish then silence" cycle, I can say from experience, having someone walk you through it makes all the difference. Anyone else been through this? Curious what finally helped you break out of it.
8 books in and I still felt invisible
For a while I had 8 books out. Real books, real work behind them, decent sales even. But almost no reviews and barely any visibility. I kept wondering why they weren't reaching more people. Honestly, I think I just assumed that once a book was out there, it would find its readers on its own. Write it, publish it, done. Looking back, that was the actual problem. Having books out isn't the same as having a plan for who actually finds them. I started working with Adam a while back, and it changed how I think about the whole thing, not just writing, but what happens after. Still early days for me, but I'm already noticing a difference in how I approach things now. Curious if anyone else has been here. Was there a moment you realized the real issue wasn't your writing, but something happening behind the scenes? What was it, and how'd you figure it out?
2 likes • Sep 11
@Cole digital Consultant Good question. The biggest change has honestly been having an actual plan instead of just guessing. Before, I'd publish and hope for the best, now there's more structure around visibility and understanding who I'm actually trying to reach. It's still early, but I've noticed more intentional engagement on the books already, not just random sales here and there.
The Blind Spot 7 Out of Ten Share
I went back and looked at the last ten authors I talked to who felt "stuck" after launch. Some of them had the exact same blind spot, and it wasn't about their writing at all. Kind of surprised me how consistent it was. Anyone else run into this?
3 likes • Sep 5
@Lenore Rosewood Great points, Lenore, presentation and positioning really do matter more than people expect. The blind spot I noticed most often was authors treating marketing as something to figure out after launch, instead of having a plan in place from the start. It wasn't about the writing itself, it was more about not knowing what to prioritize once the book was actually out. I only really understood this myself once I got the right guidance on it.
0 likes • Sep 5
@Evans Aspan Hey Evans, sorry for the late response i just wanted to let you know I sent you an email! Look forward to continuing the conversation there.
One conversation can change your entire journey.
When I began building my online business, I believed success came from figuring everything out on my own. I spent countless hours learning, making mistakes, and second-guessing every decision. Looking back, I wasn't lacking effort; I was lacking the right guidance. Everything started to change when I learned from someone who had already achieved the results I wanted. That guidance saved me from unnecessary mistakes, gave me a clearer direction, and helped me make better decisions with confidence. I think self-publishing is very similar. Writing the book is only one part of the journey. Publishing, positioning, marketing, and reaching the right readers all come with their own challenges. The good news is that no one has to figure it all out alone. That's one of the reasons I joined Lessons in Self Publishing. This community is full of people with different experiences, and one shared lesson can save someone else weeks or even months of frustration. So I'd love to hear from everyone here: Where are you in your self-publishing journey? What's the biggest challenge you're facing right now? If you could get guidance in one area, writing, publishing, marketing, or getting reviews- what would it be? Don't keep your struggles to yourself. Sharing them might be the first step toward finding the answer you're looking for, and your experience could help another author move forward. Let's learn from each other. What's the one thing you need help with today?
3 likes • Jul 31
@Adam Erhart This is so true, Adam. Writing and marketing really are two completely different skill sets, and I think a lot of authors don't realize that until they've already lost real time. I know I underestimated it early on too. For those reading this, would you say you tried to figure out marketing on your own first, or did you seek out guidance early? Curious how much that timing ends up mattering.
The Pattern Nobody Talks About
I've noticed something odd. The authors who eventually get the most readers are rarely the ones who write the "best" book. There's a specific reason for that, and most people never figure it out until years in. Anyone else notice this pattern?
3 likes • Jul 26
This mindset shift really is the key, Adam. I've experienced it firsthand, treating publishing as the start of a relationship instead of the finish line. Having that guidance early on made a huge difference in how I approached marketing and staying consistent after launch. For those still figuring this out, having someone to walk you through that shift, instead of learning it the hard way years in, can save a lot of time.
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