The "What's in it for me?" mindset slowed me down on my journey getting closer to Jesus. It is a mindset that overrules and makes you forget all of the blessings you have in your life already. You cannot truly appreciate the things you have, if your eyes are focused on things you don't have. It can lead to an open door to where the enemy can use that desire to have envy or worry. Once, I got more in my word I started feeling gratitude for anything in my life. It shifted my life in a positive manner, the act of repentance is apologizing from the bottom of your heart, and promising change. So that the next time around you will be tempted, you will turn the other way. This does not mean we will sin again, for we are not perfect. But it will make it resisting temptation easier.