Reminder that tomorrow is Thursday, not Wednesday like I thought for the first half of the day. I am looking forward to seeing everyone at 7am Cottage Homes Park at 714 N Highland Ave.

Men of Standard, This week I will be headed to Knocksville for some hiking, isolation with my lady, and a dear friend's wedding! Unfortunately, this means I will be out of town Thursday. @Mike Rouzer has offered to lead the group. Same great time, same great place and same great men! If there are any topics you would like do discuss, please drop them in the comments below. Aho!

Hi Brothers, I'd love to see you guys on June 4th! I'm thinking about adding a cold plunge option. Grab your spot, use discount code "MOS" https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1988581921057?aff=oddtdtcreator

Men of Standard, What an incredible way to start the day. Thank you for showing up with open minds and open hearts! Reflecting on this morning’s first Men of Standard circle. 8 men showed up at 7am to sit together, reflect, and have real conversation. That alone says something. One thing I left thinking about was how uncommon it is for men to openly acknowledge what they are proud of. We opened the circle by sharing something we’ve done recently that we are genuinely proud of, and I challenged the men to speak it clearly and firmly. Not arrogantly. Not apologetically. Just honestly. It struck me how many men carry responsibility quietly. We work, provide, support others, handle pressure, solve problems, and keep moving, often without ever pausing to recognize ourselves for it. There was something powerful about hearing men own their efforts out loud. We also spent time talking about responsibility in relationships. One brother reflected on stepping more fully into responsibility. Another spoke about responsibility that had been volunteered onto him. I shared that I’ve recognized myself retracting responsibility in some family relationships. That conversation opened up a bigger reflection around standards. What standards do we hold for ourselves? What standards do we hold for others? When are we leading well? When are we controlling? When are our expectations rooted in love, and when are they rooted in fear, resentment, or projection? A few thoughts I’ve continued sitting with since the circle: • Not every unmet expectation is disrespect. Sometimes it’s lack of communication or capacity. • Holding standards and controlling people are not the same thing. • It’s important to ask: “Am I modeling the standard I expect from others?” • Some people lack character. Others simply lack capacity, awareness, or tools. • We shouldn’t lower standards to avoid discomfort. But we also shouldn’t weaponize standards to make ourselves feel superior. I left this morning feeling grateful.