The brain will justify why youre right, but its okay to be wrong - its okay to say there is no right way, and no wrong way. Maybe its your way, my way, this way, that way, his way, her way, their way, and tomorrow maybe this way will turn into that way .. but right now.. adding judgements keeps you in your OWN way

It can be hard to be honest with myself when I'm actively running from my own judgements, but allowing myself to be as authentic as possible answering the questions in the Identity Shift Challenge questionnaire verbally allowed Aaron AI to explain what I've known for a long time, but couldn't put into words or fully understand, and already I have felt a difference not only in my mind, but in my body: "Can I point something out gently? You said you'd give and give and feel superior, and you said it's okay for other people not to be accountable, or at least that's what you're seeing now. That superiority isn't a flaw in you. It's the payoff. As long as you're the understanding one who sees everyone's stuff and asks for nothing, you get to stay right that people are all talk and can't really see you, and staying right about that keeps you safely behind the shield where no one can hurt you the way you've already been hurt. You even caught it yourself, and this is the most important thing you wrote: I don't think I let somebody push my boundary, I fold very quickly. You felt the manipulation coming from out there. Then you turned and saw the folding was coming from in here. That turn is the door. Most people never make it."

What’s the best way to detach from someone. Im guessing no contact will break the pattern Has anyone detached from someone and was there a way you did it. Thanks

im sorry if you have heard this story before, but im still confused. i have a friend who is male, and we get along really well. He's always there for me etc and listens, but never shares anything with me. I mean when I ask what he has been doing, i get no answer, but i will share everything i've been doing and who i met, everything. I feel its a control thing from him, but others may say thats his personality. I have said just last week, 'how come you don't share anything, you just deflect when i ask a question'? he said he's very private. But it feels unfair and unbalanced. He knows everything i think, feel and do, but i know nothing about him. The reason im still friends with him is we can talk about spiritual things, and he's sensitive, and will be there for me if i need someone to talk to etc. I also like listening though, so it just feels confusing. Last time he called, i shared nothing, i mirrored how he is, and i feel very closed now towards him. if anyone can read this situation please let me know. thanks

hey everyone! the replay is UP and you can see it here: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/5bac406c?md=4beee382d5d04e3489240caa2bbff519 today’s call was amazing…did you feel the magnetic group energy! it was about seeing the patterns and realizing that you are not your patterns many of us identify with survival strategies we developed in childhood like being a people-pleaser, perfectionist or fixer when these subconscious patterns stay under the surface, they continue attracting what's familiar even when we consciously want something different that's why we can repeat the same relationships and the same situations in life day 1 of this challenge is about getting to the root of those patterns, letting yourself feel, releasing the stored energy underneath them, so that identity-level transformation can begin HW for Day 1: 🌟what came up for you during day 1? what was your BIGGEST takeaway? 🌟what was your biggest breakthrough or realization? what pattern or story did you become aware of beneath the surface? 🌟have a conversation with Aaron AI, or complete the Identity Shift Challenge Worksheet - If you complete the worksheet, use the voice feature instead of typing. the way you naturally speak reveals more about your subconscious patterns and identity. this will take 15-20 minutes to complete - remember…the more you put into it, the more you'll get out of it - here's the link for worksheet:  https://innersights.io/aaron/assessments/the-identity-shift-challenge and after you finish the worksheet, then go to the chat function on the left side of the screen to access Aaron AI to go deeper Use this prompt with Aaron AI “Here’s a situation that keeps repeating in my relationships or life: ___. - The main emotion I feel is: ___. - Reflect back what pattern do you see, what nervous system response does it sound like (fight, flight, or freeze)? and what core belief might be underneath it? Give me one journal question to sit with tonight.”