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"Dress for the body you have"? Train for the one you want!
The common wisdom of "dressing for the body you have" seems to make sense for the common man. After all, clothes look better when they suit the wearer. However, when I started getting into MTM and bespoke garments, I decided that I wanted to go the other way — to get my (mostly) perfect body before I spend too much money on garments, so I can make sure they fit the body that I want to keep for the next 20-30 years. Advantages of this approach: 1. Having a motivation to improve our physique. 2. Not being demotivated to improve our physique due to already having plenty of clothes designed for our current, inferior one. 3. Avoiding the cost of future alterations (or remakes). 4. In the end, looking better. Because if you're obese, all the tailoring in the world won't make it look *good*, it can just camouflage it and make it look *passable*. So I started training. Since I didn't have any belly to lose, for me, the key areas were: 1. Neck thickness — since that's what determines what shirt collar you can button. I wanted to optimize it. I've mostly been using a simple routine of neck curls, side flexions, and extensions. I found out that once you can neck curl ~5 kg at ~30 reps, this looks like the sweet spot (the neck should optimally be around the width of the jaw). 2. Shoulder positioning — which determines the shoulder position of all shirts and jackets. I focused on upper traps and serratus anterior through Lu raises and similar exercises. This made it so I have much less sloped shoulders than before — their default position looks much healthier and more masculine. 3. Pelvis positioning — not sure how much it affects the pants fit, but I have been training muscles around my pelvis (mostly the inner stomach muscles and the glutes) through exercises like stomach vacuums to counteract the excess lordosis I've developed. Now I've gotten so much into it that I'm also training less important muscles like chest, biceps, and triceps to balance out the huge neck that I grew. 💪
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@Carl Ronny Birkeland almost every day. I'm also doing rehab exercises for my knees, I guess that also counts. With hypertrophy exercises, it's enough to do them 2-3 times a week to see good progress.
Which waistcoat design looks the best on me?
With or without lapels, narrow or wide shoulders — four designs total. Which ones look the most attractive (as in "sexy") on me? Which ones are to be avoided?
Which waistcoat design looks the best on me?
Bespoke dark brown fresco suit (in progress) part II
Third fitting. One thing I asked the tailor to do, which I am beginning to doubt a little, was to sew the pleats a few centimeters lower than standard. This was dictated by the desire to make the pleats as straight as possible. I didn't capture the effect well in the photo, but it seems to make them look shallower visually. I was unhappy that the tailor did not consult me on the shape and position of the pockets in the jacket (I wanted hacking pockets) or the fastening on the trousers (he made them buttoned, when I would have preferred an elongated hook-and-eye fastening). However, the foundations seem solid. As for the jacket, the tailor put in a lot of padding, but I'm wondering if even more would be in order. I'm also considering a larger opening/slit at the bottom to visually lengthen the leg line. Perhaps a slightly narrower waistline — but for now, I'm going with the strategy of “widening the shoulders instead of suppressing the waist.” The tailor will widen them by another half a centimeter, and we'll see the results at the next fitting. What do you think, gentlemen?
Bespoke dark brown fresco suit (in progress) part II
1 like • Feb 7
@Brian McGuire indeed, I am inspired by the Roman style. I'm not sure yet how high I will want to place the gorge. I am thinking of just lining it up with the (highly padded) shoulder line, so making it more moderate. But I have to agree that the current height also has its charm. I'm around 5' 6" myself, so I'm trying to get as much visual height as I can.
Casual wear: Thoughts on company logos
For casual wear, what do you think of logos of companies you either work for or own? (Assume the logo is small and tastefully placed on the left chest "polo style")
0 likes • Nov '25
If you are working for a company, this can show loyalty. But do you want to show loyalty that much even when you're off the clock? If it's a business you own/get commissions for, I would even wear huge advertisement banner on a T-shirt if your goal is not to be stylish, but to gather leads.
Dark elegance
One of my favorite clothing combos of all time is a striped black shirt with a blazer. It expresses something about me that a crisp white shirt simply could not. It makes me feel in harmony with my clothing.
Dark elegance
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