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Isolation and mental health
I haven’t been active or social here for a long time now. Truth be told, i haven’t been very social anywhere the last couple of weeks. As for everyone, my mental state goes up and down. Although, being an introvert with ptsd and severe anxiety my downmoments gets very bad most of the times. I then tend to isolate myself more than i usually do, both from other people but also the outside world. I bury myself in studies and overthinks alot. It feels very good to have this community to turn to and seek inspiration and joy in all your posts. It’s so much more than just good looking costumes. I hope you all have a great day!
Isolation and mental health
2 likes • Nov '24
Wow thank you all so much for your amazing response! I appreciate you guys !
1 like • Nov '24
@Joel Leanda wow this is truly inspirational! That journey must have been such a strong and mind-opening experience that you will carry with you for the rest of your life!
Dealing with sensitive/tiresome conversation topics
How do you gentlemen deal with friends that cannot avoid sensitive or tiresome conversations? Me and the wife met a few good friends for a dinner party this weekend. During the evening a few more people join us, and a few glasses of wine are enjoyed. Problem starts here, when politics come up as conversation topics. As you might expect, soon enough the temperature rises as views, opinions, speculations and world solving solutions are tossed across the room. I am myself interested and somewhat educated about politics, but I just find discussing all the quite discomforting events going on globally quite depressing. A nice dinner turns into a deep dive into all that is wrong with the world. :-( I love my friends and they are all intelligent, well-meaning individuals with a good grasp of reality but I don't see the point of discussing all this together over wine and company. I've heard that one should never discuss politics, religion or money and this weekend I really wished for that rule to be applied. How do you deal with loved ones that always steer conversations into controversy?
4 likes • Nov '24
I feel you on this one. Without going any further into it i sometimes have somewhat controversial views on things compared to many swedes. I always try to stay out of the conversation when people around me start to discuss these topics. Not because i am afraid to stand up for what i believe. But mostly because other people tend to get very upset when others dont agree with them or when they are talking to someone that doesn’t share their morals or values. I believe that people who are unable to accept your views and/or opinions are not worthy of your time. And by accept i dont mean that they have to adapt your opinions, but simply accept you even if you have them. When it is unavoidable i try to join the conversation with a mindset like ”the best thing there is, is to be wrong, for that is when we learn”. It basically means that one should let go of prestige and not be afraid to change views or opinions based on the facts that are presented. Most importantly though i believe is to NEVER lose your cool. Always talk with a calm voice and calm manner no matter the subject.
0 likes • Nov '24
@Chuck Cranford Better to start with ”the way i see it…” or ”my opinion on the matter is…”.
Laid my father to rest today
Classic blue is timeless for a timeless hero of mines🦸🏿🦸🏿🫡
Laid my father to rest today
6 likes • Oct '24
I am very sorry for your loss brother. Great outfit to show respect!
Perfume brands
What perfume brands would you recommend me? , I am a teenager going to high school . Like I never bought a perfume cause I never feel like buying it . Whatever now, I see my mates using it, I feel like I should use it too ... so what to do you say which perfume to choose ? Please let me know the best perfume that could help me attract girls .. lol
2 likes • Oct '24
Parfums de Marly Layton or Carlisle is a fantastic choice!
New MTM 3-piece
Wow. I have to say i love my new MTM three-piece from Hockerty. Took a bit of a leap of faith when ordering a full 3 piece without having bought from them before. But fortune favors the bold i reckon. It fits perfect and the fabric is as nice as i expected. So to break in my new 3-piece i took it out for a study session at a local café. The blazer and pants is the same melange beige. The waistcoat is brown/red houndstooth. Topped it with a green tie in a half windsor with beige dots, a green flowerpin and a mossgreen handkerchief. brown oxfords on the feet👍 Hope you all have a great day🏅
New MTM 3-piece
3 likes • Sep '24
@Daniel Palm Tack så mycket 😁🏅
1 like • Oct '24
@Robert Rocco Thank you very much Robert! Hope you have a great day ☺️🏅
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Christoffer Lindskog
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A fragrance-enthusiast, with a love for philosophy, mathematics and physics. Former Military and Police officer.

Active 120d ago
Joined Sep 4, 2024
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